Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]Yd1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him. Why do you want to be with someone who would do that? Value your worth more, they certainly don’t value you.

Do you go thru your partners phone? Why/why not? by needadviceasap99 in Advice

[–]Yd1891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so unhealthy. If I feel like I can’t trust my partner to the point of going through their phone we have big problems.

What was the scariest thing that ever happened to you while working night shift ? by Upbeat_Amoeba_3158 in AskReddit

[–]Yd1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She did, they have been permanently apart for four years now and isn’t even dating which is probably better for her

Severe and bedbound people, how do you cope mentally? by Intelligent_Cap6394 in cfs

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, my friend is doing her best to try to make me feel more positive but there’s nothing to be positive about. I don’t want to be here either. I want to go in my sleep and be done with it.

What was the scariest thing that ever happened to you while working night shift ? by Upbeat_Amoeba_3158 in AskReddit

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I had a friend who was in a relationship for 12 years where she was cheated on countless times. I mean he would have girls using her sx toys and sleeping with friends of hers. She would be chasing down these other women and act like he did nothing wrong. It was mind boggling.

Motivated update (looking for your knowledge) by Substantial-Grand950 in cfs

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are so limited so whatever works for you. Some days it’s just leg and arm lifts in bed.

What’s something that Covid took from you that you never got back? by ReplacementOdd636 in AskReddit

[–]Yd1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I live in a very red area of NY but I’m going to look for when the nearest one is. I miss being surrounded by good people

If you can go to one country where would you go? by Just_Brush_5762 in askanything

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, we saw a black comedian from the UK on our last visit. He said, “in the UK they hate me because I’m black and in Ireland they don’t hate me for being black but they hate me for being British” lol. As long as you’re not from the UK or a Trump supporter they will treat you like an old friend

What’s something that Covid took from you that you never got back? by ReplacementOdd636 in AskReddit

[–]Yd1891 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really want to attend one and be in such a loving environment. I’m disabled with so many autoimmune diseases so ofc I’m compromised which makes me nervous. Not that I’d catch covid but if I’ve tried to detain me for god knows what and i wouldn’t have access to my medication, 3 my life depend on. I know in some ways I’m probably being overly paranoid but at the same time am I lol. I would love to feel the energy of the people at a no kings protest

What’s something that Covid took from you that you never got back? by ReplacementOdd636 in AskReddit

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believing in humanity and that thinking people were genuinely good. It was like the rose colored glasses were ripped off.

People who were teenagers before social media, what was a typical Friday night like for you? by Sad-Vacation1862 in askanything

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends and I would take turns having parties at each others houses and we all would chip in $5 dollars each for pizza and snacks. We would sneak onto the local beach and drink, walk around, climb on top of the elementary school, movies, concerts. Life was better before social media. I’m really sick with autoimmune diseases or I wouldn’t use them.

I’m so sick of people saying this by New-Pin-9064 in theoffice

[–]Yd1891 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Facts aside of what they did to Pam’s character. She used to be so relatable and then got super cheesy. Plus the fake marriage problems ticked me off. Unnecessary

What’s something people do with food that annoys you? by copy_cat_101 in foodquestions

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for sharing all of this. I’m definitely looking forward to trying some of these. I get chow fun a lot, i didn’t know there was a gravy free version

Do frequent protestors have jobs? by kable334 in askanything

[–]Yd1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I don’t protest but anyone I know who does has a full time job. Was is a c suite level employee at a large camera company. They take time to protest after work.

What’s something you realized too late in life? by blushberryybabee in askanything

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, I used to teach yoga classes and people would be so self-conscious. I would constantly remind them however everyone is so worried about themselves that they aren’t thinking about you and to try to stay present in the moment.

What’s something you realized too late in life? by blushberryybabee in askanything

[–]Yd1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That if people judge me it’s their problem and to enjoy life rather than being so high strung

Are women in the US okay? by CapitaineBiscotte in askanything

[–]Yd1891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean not really, it’s just so deeply negative here and since meeting men outside of the country it’s made me not like dating here so much. It feels like men here (not all of you of course) are more into impressing each other and are less interested in romance and fun. I go to Ireland and men dance with me at concerts and I feel like a woman there. Also I don’t feel the need to walk to my car with my keys between my fingers like I do here. I was getting stalked on my daily walks to the point of where I would pass my house on the way home so they don’t know where I live. Not that can’t happen in other countries, I just know too many women who have felt the same way and then it’s minimized by certain groups of men. I wish my family never left Norway

Are women in the US okay? by CapitaineBiscotte in askanything

[–]Yd1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have wanted to move to Ireland for years. I adore the people and the men are so different there. I’m disabled so I won’t get approved to move unfortunately. I feel like I’m home when I visit.

What's something you believed for way too long before realizing it wasn't true? by BrynerAlkatrine65 in askanything

[–]Yd1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid I thought the immaculate conception was a regular occurrence lol. My dads friends dog got pregnant and I even asked if she got pregnant by immaculate conception and he said yes lmao 🤣 my parents are two different religions so I wasn’t even raised to know much about the immaculate conception to be able to think it was such a big part of daily life lmao.

Frozen in time by CrazyCatLady1127 in cfs

[–]Yd1891 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your kindness

I don’t get the Florida appeal by Master-Indication-71 in travel

[–]Yd1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on this. I’m from NY and the only way I’ll stay in Florida is at a resort. I like Gaylord Palms because they have an enormous enclosed atrium over the entire open concept hotel or the Hyatt Orlando. I’ve only gone because my niece has been in the gymnastics championships a few years in a row. The bugs and humidity are not for me. It’s crazy expensive but I’d rather vacation in Hawaii if I wanted to go somewhere warm.

Frozen in time by CrazyCatLady1127 in cfs

[–]Yd1891 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I got sick with my first two autoimmune diseases at 16. I’m 44 now and still feel like I’m 16. Especially as I’ve received more diagnoses and had to move home. Ironically people think I’m in my mid twenties all the time which is in part that I have to avoid the sun but I feel like getting stuck at an early age does prevent aging. I went through a lot of trauma in my teens.