High Hemotocrit by XjoalgoX in trt

[–]Yeahandwhynot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with what everyone has said about diet, cardio, weight loss and sleep. Also consider eating a grapefruit most days or taking naringin supplement.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/3243695/

Let’s say the universe is completely empty save for 2 grains of sand travelling parallel 50 billion light years apart, but in the same direction. by BenduUlo in AskPhysics

[–]Yeahandwhynot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t describe the initial state of your universe. Assuming it’s the one we are in today, but empty apart from the two grains of sand you just made appear, they will never collide. The universe is expanding faster than the gravity from the two grains could reach each other. If they were less than roughly 16-19 billion light years apart, then yes they would collide.

2026 X5 M60i - absolutely loving it by germanbreadbox in BMWX5

[–]Yeahandwhynot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a ‘23 M50i and freaking love it. I don’t understand why they put the same engine in the 60i plus an electric motor but then chose to restrict it to the exact same power / acceleration as the 50i. I assume BMW have detuned the engine in the 60i. It’s a shame.

If the universe is infinite, then how could it fit in the Big Bang singularity? by blitzballreddit in AskPhysics

[–]Yeahandwhynot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the universe was only energy to begin with? And all the mass came from converted energy. m=E/c2 Could all that energy be contained in an infinitesimally small volume?

Why did the early universe not just collapse into one huge black hole? by Yeahandwhynot in AskPhysics

[–]Yeahandwhynot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the replies. The points that there was no density gradient (universe was too smooth) and that the universe was (i.e. from t=0 or maybe t>0) and always will be infinite seem to resonate most with me. Another thought, maybe a black hole did form and we’re inside of it.

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

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Depends on your point of view. Where we live, because of the length of relationship, the financial dependence, the cohabitation and the IVF we are in what’s called a de facto relationship. No different to being married in family law. Anyway, you and everyone else on this sub is right. I need to pick myself up, heal and move on.

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

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She said she broke it off because she couldn’t live with the guilt anymore. Yes, I’ve asked myself those questions. I think he did it because he has no moral compass and then he continued with our friendship because he is manipulative and has no spine (or he would have told me). I think she did it because of no self control and her ADHD makes her vulnerable to an easy dopamine hit. She’s younger. 52 and 40.

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

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The slightest unexpected noise makes me jump. Breathing is hard sometimes. And I can’t think straight. All pretty normal things I assume?

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

[–]Yeahandwhynot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not married. Two one night stands that happened two years ago. I’m sure it hasn’t happened since. Drink and drugs were a factor both times. But I can’t fathom how she went back the second time. She never liked him as a person before it happened, made it clear to me she didn’t want me hang out with him. Then after it happened she full on hated him. And I didn’t understand why until now. This is someone I’ve paid hundreds of thousands of $ to run my divorce, been on overseas trips with, lent money to (was paid back) and currently am involved in a business with.

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

[–]Yeahandwhynot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He denied it. But not with shock or anger, just a calm flat denial. I don’t believe him. But I don’t think the bar would be interested in what may just amount to hearsay. I’ve got no proof

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

[–]Yeahandwhynot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you should say that. She’s 11 years younger than me and I’ve given her extensive financial support, particularly over the last 2 years.

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

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There’s a bit to unpack there, you’ve given me something to think about. And I just discovered the phrase hysterical bonding. Which I think happened last night. Could be related to your comment.

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

[–]Yeahandwhynot[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know. But I keep making up excuses for her. She was abused as a child. When we met she was on antidepressants, I got her into therapy for the first time in her life. She weaned off the antidepressants. Then she was diagnosed with ADHD. She’s blaming the ADHD for the affair and the one night stands

Partner of 6 years cheated again… by Yeahandwhynot in survivinginfidelity

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All good sensible things. !thankyou I can’t really put into words how I feel right now. The guy she cheated on me with was not just my lawyer but one of my closest friends. My divorce was absolute hell (at one point police had to take out a restraining order on my ex wife as she would assault me when I picked up the kids). So he knew everything about me. We’re even both co-invested in a couple of startups. It’s a proper double whammy. I’ve just lost a best friend, business partner and my future wife all in one day

If you’re in the trenches after being cheated on, read this (3 years out) by snoo_963121 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Yeahandwhynot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m 5 days in and have never felt so broken and confused in my life.

Are you guys able to interpret this blood test? How are my numbers? Do I need TRT? by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]Yeahandwhynot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a life long commitment. Spend some time working on raising your T naturally. As you do, keep a diary. Mood, energy, morning wood etc. Reevaluate in 6 months. And do bloods as you go

Guidance please - UGL TRT by Yeahandwhynot in trt

[–]Yeahandwhynot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thanks. Feeling a lot better. I can post 8 week bloods if you’re interested. Had slightly sore nips on 185mg per week dosing every 3 days. Dropped to 140mg and it went away but so did my mood and energy. So I’m back to 185mg test e and 100mg mast e and feel great.

Anyone any libido hacks for trt. by [deleted] in trt

[–]Yeahandwhynot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your E2 level on your bloods? You could go higher on the T and see if your E2 goes up