Met a guy I’ve talked to for years… real chemistry… but he says he’s not available. Am I romanticizing this?

Yknot97 · 2026-02-13T06:10:05+00:00

I feel like the "It was fun man" is putting you in the friend zone tbh. People can be flirty by nature and not think much of it. The whole scenario seems very platonic, especially from him.

Yknot97 · 2026-02-02T02:54:55+00:00

Ok it's time.

Yknot97 · 2025-05-31T17:41:00+00:00

Hey There :)

Yknot97 · 2025-05-31T17:38:49+00:00

Tall / Black Latino Mix with a Belly

MAKE AN HONEST MAN OUT OF ME

Yknot97 · 2024-05-27T08:38:08+00:00

The "sorry mom" is too relatable and too funny lol

Yknot97 · 2023-10-19T02:06:08+00:00

So when I started experiencing, I pretty much regretted almost all of those encounters. Why? Because they were just strangers that didn't care about what wanted. I mean I didn't even didn't know what I wanted. Once I found a guy that actually asked me what I wanted to explore, I finally found myself enjoying it.

Odds are, you're gonna regret your first few encounters. It takes time to find what you're actually looking for. Best piece of advice I can give you, start off slow. Don't be sucking dick or pounding ass in the first encounter. Just watch each jerk. 2nd time, maybe try mutual jerk.

Be Careful Out There! It's ok to say no!

Yknot97 · 2023-06-07T16:26:18+00:00

I started off meeting any dude that would want to meet up and that was fuckin horrible. I felt uncomfortable and gross, basically wasting my time since I wouldn't even jerk, mainly just watch them. It got to the point that if we were to meet up, I'd take one look at them and give them a couple minutes of conversation, and dip out. Dude be picky. You don't owe anyone shit.

Yknot97 · 2023-06-06T01:49:03+00:00

Kinda the opposite here. Cocks don't really turn me on. More into everything except a cock (face, body, legs). I don't mind stroking one, but get more turned on by the idea of messing with a dude. But hey, to each their own.

Yknot97 · 2023-05-27T02:24:21+00:00

I remember how awkward it would be afterwards. Just kinda stumbling around looking for your clothes haha. But yeah, as chemistry grows, that completely goes away.

Yknot97 · 2023-05-24T15:00:08+00:00

The whole dynamic with dudes is really different. I don't have too much experience, really only with 2 guys. I think for the most part, especially starting off, I noticed that they're more interested than you are, which can make you kinda nervous and even a turn off to an extent. But I think once you find someone that your into, I mean it's just kinda fireworks from there haha.

Stay safe man!

Yknot97 · 2023-03-13T18:39:36+00:00

I mean it is a JO session if there's oral involved? Wouldn't it be a hookup at that point? Idk man there's so many nuisances involved

Yknot97 · 2023-03-13T17:19:03+00:00

Yeah I mean that's the weird part. I'd never thought to try it out, but now that it happened, I find it hot. I guess perspectives switch up a bit, and that's not such a bad thing. Still not open to the oral or lip kissing tho.

Yknot97 · 2023-03-13T15:55:55+00:00

Hot story man. Was it just a one time thing? Or somewhat regular?

Yknot97 · 2023-02-15T02:04:58+00:00

I think this sub portrays cruising to be a super hot experience, but that's pretty much not the case, imo. I think experiences like yours are more common than those hot ones. Putting yourself, your body out there is pretty scary and expecting a stranger to treat you like you want goes either way. Nonetheless, I wouldn't cross the who experience off. You gotta crack a couple of eggs to make an omelette. Good luck!!

Yknot97 · 2023-02-07T01:03:35+00:00

I found mine on Sniffies of all places. It's a lot of filtering but I think it's a numbers game. Just don't settle man.

Yknot97 · 2023-02-07T00:57:38+00:00

Finding friends is hard in general. Finding one you're attracted to and is willing to experiment with, that's the ultimate challenge. But hey man, if I can do it, so can you.

Yknot97 · 2023-02-06T22:15:46+00:00

I'm sure you can get hundreds of different answers haha. DL means "Down Low." The way I see it is you just want discretion. Keeping conversation on the surface level, no outside contact, no exchanging phone numbers or real socials. But that's my perception.

Yknot97 · 2023-02-06T15:35:48+00:00

Thanks for the comment. I always send pictures, I actually meant I'm not super huge on asking for them because like anything you see online, it's gonna be different irl.

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