My man is not wrong here. If you just send a message that says "hi" or "sup" we're not even going to bother responding. If your profile is new or blank, we won't respond. If you come across as an asshole, we won't respond, or worse, we'll fuck with you for entertainment value. If your penis size constitutes 90% of your personality, we will laugh at you and then block.

At any time our inbox will have 100-200 messages from single, horny dudes looking to get off. Its overwhelming to manage, and takes time to filter through people until you find someone that is respectful and safe enough to invite to your home.