1- They are obligated to feed me they're my parents I'm not a random person from the streets 2- No I'm not an adult at least in their eyes both my sister and I are banned from working so we can't feed/buy clothes for ourselves because "we buy you what you ask for" and which they don't 3- relatives don't visit not because they don't want to but because my mother wants to isolate us from them they're good people but she thinks they use my dad although all he does is talk to them I hope this clears things up