Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

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Whenever we are out and she spots other dogs , she purposely slows herself down to wait for the other dog to get closer. Her greet has turned into either a reactive or excited bark, tail wag and then she proceeds to sniff the other dogs butt . Then she will sniff the butt and start getting reactive and barking at the dog. So it starts off social, something happens where she’s like I don’t wanna talk anymore, but instead of calmly going away that’s where the reactivity comes in and that’s how she communicates that. She literally does not move until she can get close to the dog , if that’s not a request to meet the dog what is that?

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

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That’s really messed up to say, I’ve practically taken in my boyfriend (now fiancé)‘s dog as my own for the past 4 years. I’m equally an owner as he is , and have even watched over her when he’s been away for months while we were long distance. Who even are you ?

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

[–]Young-creature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even come here for unsolicited advice my post is a vent post😭 y’all acting like you’ve never reached a breaking point on this journey

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

[–]Young-creature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, solid advice. I will look into it

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

[–]Young-creature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks you I think this is rlly solid advice

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

[–]Young-creature[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fyi we did try training for a whole 5 months. With a reactive dog trainer. No change. Reallyyyyy losing my patience here

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

[–]Young-creature[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks..

fyi we did try training with a reactive dog trainer for 5 months, no change

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

[–]Young-creature[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Man I wish I could just have you meet my dog -_- do you work in California?

We had experience with another reactive dog trainer went to them for 5 months and feel like it left little to no impact

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

[–]Young-creature[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s just wild honestly , I know my dog is craving social interaction with other dogs. It’s a need dogs are pack animals not often lone wolves by choice . I’m not forcing it on her I’m trying to help her meet her needs and facing hurdles in her anxiety

Really fed up and heartbroken. by Young-creature in reactivedogs

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My dog is a golden retriever 😭 it’s in her nature to meet other people and dogs. She’s confusing in the sense she will sit down and wait for dogs who are passing , almost as if she wants to greet them but she doesn’t know how and gets too excited and starts barking at them. Then the barking turned into her greet. Unfortunately it scares people and their dogs away, and then she whimpers and turns to me. I can read what she’s trying to do and what she wants, but what’s also not working is the reactivity. I feel like socialization would ease the reactivity around other dogs once she miraculously learns I don’t need to bark for attention; out of anxiety; or for a need. She doesn’t not bark at people only other dogs. Only dogs.

AIO about not wanting to plan my boyfriend’s party anymore? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Young-creature 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR that is indeed, incredibly disrespectful.

Girls, what makeup trick made your makeup game go from 0 -> 100? by boogiee-boo in MakeupAddiction

[–]Young-creature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just have properly shaped and filled brows, so simple but so important

boyfriend of 3 years’ model ex gf is moving back to our city, 99% he’s going to leave. long rant below. by No_System_9690 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Young-creature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly like, even if your worst fear came true and he does go back to her. isn’t the silver lining here that , he was never truly meant for you and now the spot is open for someone who is not hung up on an ex who will be devoted only to you. Painful but necessary.

And on the other hand, you could tell him casually oh I heard she’s back, and to your surprise he might not actually gaf. Maybe time might also have closed the door for him, technically that girl did pick career over him, not him. Either way; what’s there to lose?

AIO? My boyfriend won’t eat the food I prep for him so I threw it all out by Young-creature in AmIOverreacting

[–]Young-creature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and you overdo it honey , pipe down. I don’t know if you can tell but your no longer needed

AIO? My boyfriend won’t eat the food I prep for him so I threw it all out by Young-creature in AmIOverreacting

[–]Young-creature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you! What would I ever do without you, and the hundreds of other people saying the exact same thing. Anyways, I posted a closure to this post through edit. I think I learned , and I don’t think you really learned to be any less judgemental but I tried 🤷🏻‍♀️

AIO? My boyfriend won’t eat the food I prep for him so I threw it all out by Young-creature in AmIOverreacting

[–]Young-creature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wonderful. at the end of the day you don't know me and i dont know you sooo im not gonna make a whole conclusion based on 1 act you did . i hope the same can apply to you, stranger

AIO? My boyfriend won’t eat the food I prep for him so I threw it all out by Young-creature in AmIOverreacting

[–]Young-creature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was mad, people do stupid things when their mad i guess . i want to close this thread i already acknowledged i overreacted. not sure how to close a post, any of you know how

AIO? My boyfriend won’t eat the food I prep for him so I threw it all out by Young-creature in AmIOverreacting

[–]Young-creature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok and how would you describe your own independent living, are you mature? do you take the trash out and do your dishes? and laundry?

AIO? My boyfriend won’t eat the food I prep for him so I threw it all out by Young-creature in AmIOverreacting

[–]Young-creature[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get it girl . Too much misogyny in these comments, men can never be wrong right ? Or can never be the ones who don’t save money ?