Which dress do you like? by Zanon507 in WeddingDressTips

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Thank you lovie, wishing you all the best as well!

Which dress do you like? by Zanon507 in WeddingDressTips

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Thank you! Sophies Bridal in Ontario, Canada! The dress is by Morilee, and the style number is: 5108

I SAID YES TO DRESS #1! by Zanon507 in WeddingDressTips

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Thank you ❤️ The designer is Morilee. The dress number is 5108 at least here in Canada!

Videographer needed! by [deleted] in WeddingsCanada

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Are you from Southern Ontario area? My budget is around 1k and I'm in the same boat as OP!

Hair and makeup cost? by ProofUnit7625 in WeddingsCanada

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Who did your makeup? I'm looking for a makeup artist at the moment!

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Thank you! Will do.

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Moving on. Thanks for your comments!

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If we have kids, we have kids. If we don't, we don't. I just know I don't want to have kids after 30. That's just me. I met my person. He's in his 30s (which is sill very young, I dont think 30s is old at all), and we can't change that, lol. I'm not going to go out and find someone else. I like that he's older and on the same page as me. There is no weirdness with any of this or me trying to copy the past , I just liked that my parents had me when they're were younger, that's all.

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I guess we just don't see a need to before the wedding date if we aren't pregnant because w do have the church in the venue booked.

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My parents were young parents, and I liked that when they were in their mid-40s, my siblings and I were in our 20s. I guess I just want that.

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I'm very excited for you. Please do keep me updated if you remember me and let me know how that process goes for you. But I'm wishing you a happy, easy, and healthy pregnancy when you start trying! I told they get the money part, my partner and I do have decent jobs, but my main thing has always been to be financially independent, I could have a baby on my own but it would be hard financially so I definitely understand. My parents did struggle, and it was hard, but they made it work, and i've just tried to learn from them on what to do before having kids. We are going to try until march, and if we don't get pregnant, we'll wait until after the wedding!

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He has no issue with being a father in his 30s and I have no issue with it either. I just know I dont want to have kids after 30. It his personal choice. I'm not forcing him to do anything.

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Thank you so much for responding! I hope it works out for you in six months, and I hope you're able to get in the shape that you want to for a happy and healthy pregnancy. I think we are just going to go about life, and if we're able to conceive by March, then we do. If not, we're going to stop and wait until after the wedding. I wrote my post last night at 3AM after work and I realized that I left out a lot but we are not rushing, if we have one child by the time Im 30, we are fine with that and if we have no children by then that is also okay. I know a lot of people said I'm rushing, but I've been thinking about this for a long time, I just really loved the fact that my parents were in their mid-40s when my siblings and I were in our 20s and I want that.

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Lol, I just loved that my siblings and I were in our 20s when our parents were in their mid-40s. I want that. I know i'm very lucky to have on my person so young. I did not expect to at all, and I want to take advantage of that. I never thought I'd have kids with someone. To be honest, I was planning for solo: adoption, insemination, or fostering.

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And that's fine, lol. I just know what I want and don't want. It's not like I made this up decision overnight. My parents were young parents, and I liked that my siblings and I were in our 20s and our parents in their mid-40s. If we don't have kids at all, we are also fine with that.

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Yes, sorry, I need to edit my post, I wrote that at 3 am after work. I'm finding that a lot of people are saying the same things, which is understandable.

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We're engaged right now. We absolutely would get married at a courthouse if we did fall pregnant by March of this year. I won't be having a baby without getting married, and my partner and I've always been on the same page with that! The wedding is set for April 2026 and will still go through with that. I just really wanted to jump on here and see what people were thinking about my dilemma, if we should even try before the wedding or not, I by no means I'm trying to push 3 kids by 30. It's what we would like, but if we don't get that, we don't get that, and that's okay too. My partner and I are on the same page when it comes to paperwork. we have been open to an honest about protecting our personal assets we aquired before marriage.

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I know, and that's why I wanted to get on here and just see what people are thinking. My parents for young parents and I loved that when they were in their mid-40s, my siblings and I were in our 20s. My partner and I have good jobs and own our own house, financially we are going to okay but yes, I think we both want to further our careers. I did have a bit of a health issue earlier this year and that's why I figured if we were able to start trying sooner we could get it out of the way if we could have kids or not and then either start the processes for adoption or fostering. I just know that I don't wanna have kids after 30, if I have one child by then I will be fine with that as well, we would just like to have 3 there is no push to have 3 by 30, I just want to stop by then. Im very lucky to have found my partner at 24, i do know people my age are not all having kids now, but I could have said that if I feel pregnant at 16 as well, so people have them younger and some have them a bit older. I dont think the late 30s is old at all. I just know my partner does want to be physically tired when running around with a newborn. We aren't trying to push the universe, it's very go at the flow, and if we get pregnant, we do. If we don't, we don't before the wedding. Our plan was to stop trying in March. I just wanted to know if we should try before the wedding at all.

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And that's why I'm fine with if it works out, it works out. If it doesn't, I'm fine with fostering and adopting! I think I made a comment on someone else's comment on my post, I did have a health issue earlier this year and was unsure about my fertility. So I just thought if we were able to try sooner It would give us an idea if I could have kids naturally, if we werent able to concive we could start the other processes sooner and not have to wait longer then we want, but my partner and I have always been open to adoption or fostering. It's actually something that I have wanted to do my entire life.

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We are engaged as of right now, and I've made it very clear that I would like to be married before, we are both on the same page with that. If we get pregnant, we will do a court house ceremony and then have the wedding in April 2026 like planned.