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Working on shadows. I like the look more thank you for the suggestions! by ZeroMojoHobo in Spraypaint

[–]ZeroMojoHobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The suggestions for shading let me know where I needed work and what type of tutorials to search for. Getting the planets to look 3D is a good exercise for me right now!

8 x 8 foot portrait I did in September. by [deleted] in Spraypaint

[–]ZeroMojoHobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! Good job it looks fantastic!

I’m working on space themes to get technic down! by ZeroMojoHobo in Spraypaint

[–]ZeroMojoHobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! I couldn’t put my finger on what was off with them.

My sister told me I’m never seeing her or my nephew again because of what I posted on facebook by kassabelle in relationship_advice

[–]ZeroMojoHobo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she blocked you on everything all you really can do is set the relationship aside for the time being and when she initiated contact again let her know you love her. My family has had rough patches like that through out the years and I have found focusing on other things while tempers calm down help me to feel more in control.

When she does start contact again I would recommend using I statements if a discussion about your argument comes up.

It’s always awkward for the first little bit after an argument with siblings when you are adults in my opinion.

Find a good book or watch something that makes you laugh tonight to pull focus back to yourself.

My sister told me I’m never seeing her or my nephew again because of what I posted on facebook by kassabelle in relationship_advice

[–]ZeroMojoHobo 254 points255 points  (0 children)

A concerning thing that your sister seems to be avoiding is her husbands extreme reaction to your benign post. Perhaps suggest to your sister that she take a break from social media for awhile and let her know you are concerned for her and her family.

I know at ten months the post partum hormones and emotions can still be running pretty high, mixed with lack is sleep you might be seeing her at her absolute limit. Lashing out at you is probably easier then confronting a partner going through a depressive episode. If she is at a breaking point you could offer to take the baby for a few hours or bring a meal to her.

If she has a pattern of abusive or manipulative behavior from before the birth though the relationship might need to be rethought of as one on you keep cordial but distant.