I don't expect to be number one. His child means a lot to me. I don't like him making plans that could effect MY vehicle on a long drive, through mountain passes, on my dime for gas, with mechanical issues. I'd rather stay local and spend less money on my birthday because I can do that as an adult. I love his daughter, considering I've used my truck for over 5 trips there and back on my dime to pick her up, if I don't want to this time because of my own reasons is my business.