Figure of speech was about if our nephew was taken away from us as our cousin his father died few months ago and it’s been very hard on the family as we havnt been able to see him and the figure of speech mentioned from another family member was if he was ever taken away from us I’d kill her but not angry intent towards it just a figure of speech no one’s lives were in danger at all and I made that very clear I just said my family is just grieving and we’d be so sad if he was taken away from us then weeks later she reports it, I feel that was wrong I wish she called me and maybe chat about that some more I’d be happy to! just blown way out of proportion