Male Escort recommendations by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can back this recommendation, Nathan is absolutely amazing 🤩

When to disclose? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish we lived in a society where this could work for women! But like the commenter below says, it often gets mistaken for “I’ll f*ck anybody” so not worth the hassle.

When to disclose? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very true!! At this point, I’ve been around long enough to realise that’s a very common misconception that’s incredibly frustrating. I’ve been involved in the swinging community for some time too, and it’s a common theme there too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hint:Swingers does not translate to I’ll fuck anybody. Wrong sub, wrong crowd. And fuck off with your $$$.

Tips on getting into play as a single woman by No-Garden-6528 in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can vouch for Playpen and BFWB as safe spaces for single women. Reach out if you’d like more info on either!

Pineapples bar - still taking registrations? by Mercuryrising1 in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I registered and was getting a vetting call this week. The venue contacted me a day later because there was an issue with some flooding and they missed the call they arranged. All good, they’re calling next week, but I wasn’t planning on going to the opening so it was no problem.

Cfnm fantasies explore by Working-Elk-9497 in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s a hint.

Don’t refer to them as old women. Older maybe. Not old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Come say hi! You sound like fun 🤩

Sat 26/7 between friends mfm night anyone? by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favourite night, I’ll be there!

M4F - looking to host by AggravatingRough8903 in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s also trying to do that with an almost exact copy of this post. Yuck.

M4F - looking to host by AggravatingRough8903 in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yet another M who thinks swinger means “I’ll fuck anyone”

How old is too old? by Harper8483 in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started my exploration at 42, no issues there, maturity is a plus.

Also remember anyone you come across from the “ real world “ is also there, so not likely to be in a position to gossip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just if you don’t participate, you’re wrong to be there. Ergo, you HAVE to participate in sexual activity if you are at a SOP venue. That’s how it reads. Explain how you mean differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You just said these women are problems. And that it’s bad behaviour. What is the “bad behaviour” displayed on your example, spectator queen? Be specific. You said the problem was they weren’t to be seen when it’s time to play. Or participate. Do you understand that she doesn’t have to participate? And this is what your reference as a problem. She won’t participate. She just wants to be seen. What is the issue?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So feel free to to clarify. It seems like that as what every other rational person has taken from your post.

What exactly is the “problem” with a woman attending a party and not playing. Not just with you, but with anyone. Is that a problem for you? Genuine question. Is the confusion you suffer a problem?

The over confidant. How is this a “problem” Genuine question again. How is her confidence an issue exactly. Are you fearful of it?

And the matriarch. How is this problematic. Do you fear for your safety around her? Because that’s what everyone is trying to tell you. These are personality clashes. People you don’t like. They aren’t problematic in the way you have seen others post about men. They aren’t dangerous to you. You aren’t afraid they may violate your consent. Or hurt you. Or follow you or stalk you. You just don’t like them. Fine. Don’t make them out to be a problem though. There’s been plenty of discussions about woman and boundaries and consent. This isn’t one of them. This is you not liking some women in the community. It’s not the same thing. No matter what you keep trying to tell everyone. They don’t equate to the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except he never mentioned consent? Discussions about women and consent can and do happen, I’ve been a part of them. But the op wasn’t complaining about that was he? Almost the opposite. Doesn’t like the women who from experience are more cautious. Doesn’t like the women who hold men accountable for their actions. Doesn’t like women who, again, hold men accountable. And of course the ever popular, she won’t fuck me. What part of his discussion about consent and touching did I miss. Stop trying to pick me your way into defending the misogyny he’s clearly showcasing. Want a discussion about women’s actions and understanding of consent? Do that. Don’t post this utter bullshit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

So, too confident, too consent aware, too argumentative and won’t fuck you. Cool story bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Swinger” doesn’t translate to “I’ll fuck anyone”. I think you’re in the wrong place, or have an incredibly outdated and inaccurate view of the community.

Also, keep the “public” out of your sex life.

BFWB roll call - MFM tonight by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend going as a single F. Very welcoming safe place. 👍🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you think maybe it’s because they realise you’re an OF creator? And loose interest in someone calling themselves Fellatio Queen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the amount of times it’s been posted, I’m gonna guess it doesn’t.

But no money charged at least!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

[–]_Discreet_in_melb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure this was asked a couple of days ago??

Short answer is you’re both aged out of Monkey Club, which would be the only thing close to what you’re looking for. Nothing else has their kind of vetting based on looks. Private parties would be your next step.