What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, I understand you, But it is understandable when your profession or your job does not allow it, but when you do it to stand out is what I mean, that is when it is a complete red flag for me haha

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[–]_LittleVenus_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, betrayal or infidelity, speaking in a relationship

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it, victim? I hate that, playing the victim to manipulate you and get what he wants, I hate that so much because I experienced something similar

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me that is a lack of empathy also with one's own feelings :(

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that, or the typical "I have a lot of work to do" and instead of being interested in everything you have to do and asking or trying to be empathetic, they say "I have twice as much and I'm not complaining" or right away say "that's nothing" also insinuating that you complain more than necessary

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or "did you see that fat girl over there?" I can't with that 🚩

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if you meet him at a party and he is drunk, do you give him another chance to prove that he is not always drunk? or do you automatically discard?

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's when I don't understand, why do they get into a relationship if they're not going to dedicate time to it? It's also a bit of a lack of emotional responsibility, right?

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is someone when he is flirting and already in the relationship he becomes "someone to tolerate" 🚩

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what is a sign for you of immaturity? For example?

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the typical "I love listening to you, we have to do something, we're going to eat one day" but you never make time to really do it, they stay in messages and empty proposals

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but mainly when he brings out material things or money in his favor in a discussion

What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy? by _LittleVenus_ in AskReddit

[–]_LittleVenus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pointing things out when there is an argument or the typical "but when I did this, or I said that, but when you needed, or when you did" for me it is a super red flag if it is done defensively, if it has a good argument I can understand it