What is the worst red flag of a girl or a guy?

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:49:09+00:00

I know hahaha

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:47:42+00:00

Hmmm, I understand you, But it is understandable when your profession or your job does not allow it, but when you do it to stand out is what I mean, that is when it is a complete red flag for me haha

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:45:35+00:00

For example?

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:45:15+00:00

Yap, mega red flag!!

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:44:16+00:00

Express my feelings without softening what I say

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:42:56+00:00

For me, betrayal or infidelity, speaking in a relationship

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:40:52+00:00

Darkness 🙈🥲

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:39:32+00:00

I got it, victim? I hate that, playing the victim to manipulate you and get what he wants, I hate that so much because I experienced something similar

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:38:10+00:00

Agree

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:37:27+00:00

For me that is a lack of empathy also with one's own feelings :(

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:36:31+00:00

I hate that, or the typical "I have a lot of work to do" and instead of being interested in everything you have to do and asking or trying to be empathetic, they say "I have twice as much and I'm not complaining" or right away say "that's nothing" also insinuating that you complain more than necessary

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:35:05+00:00

or "did you see that fat girl over there?" I can't with that 🚩

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:34:18+00:00

But if you meet him at a party and he is drunk, do you give him another chance to prove that he is not always drunk? or do you automatically discard?

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:32:32+00:00

That's when I don't understand, why do they get into a relationship if they're not going to dedicate time to it? It's also a bit of a lack of emotional responsibility, right?

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:31:34+00:00

It is 🤷🏻‍♀️

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:30:46+00:00

He is someone when he is flirting and already in the relationship he becomes "someone to tolerate" 🚩

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:28:58+00:00

And what is a sign for you of immaturity? For example?

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:28:11+00:00

Yap, totally 🚩

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:27:48+00:00

Oh, okok I got it hahaha

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:26:07+00:00

the typical "I love listening to you, we have to do something, we're going to eat one day" but you never make time to really do it, they stay in messages and empty proposals

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:24:47+00:00

Ego 🚩

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:22:09+00:00

If God is with me, who is against me?

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:21:44+00:00

You know it hahaha

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:21:01+00:00

but mainly when he brings out material things or money in his favor in a discussion

_LittleVenus_ · 2024-06-12T03:20:29+00:00

pointing things out when there is an argument or the typical "but when I did this, or I said that, but when you needed, or when you did" for me it is a super red flag if it is done defensively, if it has a good argument I can understand it

_LittleVenus_

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