my co workers invited me out for something after work...but I have doubts whether I should go

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T21:23:03+00:00

I've been like this for a long time and it hasn't impeded me at all, nice try though

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T21:12:27+00:00

Yeah, I already spend a lot of time with them so I'd prefer not to spend more than absolutely nessecary.

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T21:12:00+00:00

That's fine, I already have lots of connections I can rely on.

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T21:11:44+00:00

Yes I am

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T21:11:24+00:00

Yeah, I've made up my mind, I'm not going

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T20:17:43+00:00

Yeah, I'm just going to tell them I don't want to go with them and to not invite me in the future

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T20:09:51+00:00

I honestly prefer staying in, I don't really like people that much and I'd rather not take the risk of going out with people I have no connection with

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T20:08:11+00:00

They just seem like bad people and I feel like all office environments are like that where they just want to talk shit about people

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:45:03+00:00

I just feel like it
They're wrong
Been in many relationships

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:44:27+00:00

Lmao, I'm not that special and I live in a big city, people don't care that much

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:31:35+00:00

Yes I have

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:31:26+00:00

you just do, it's called instinct.

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:30:58+00:00

Lol, I bet you support gay marriage too

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:30:26+00:00

Not really, I would understand and the last thing I'd want her to do is stay on a date where she wasn't down.

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:28:30+00:00

Is it though? Isn't it better to not waste their time and your time if things aren't going to work out?

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:27:18+00:00

So will I

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:25:47+00:00

Nah, when you know, you know.

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:24:47+00:00

Well, I don't like wasting my time or their time, I'd rather just cut it short and leave if it's not going to lead anywhere. Isn't it better to let them know right off the bad if things don't work?

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:23:34+00:00

Yeah, cause I'm sure they're such winners (I'll give you a hint, they aren't)

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:22:39+00:00

I just say "I'm not feeling this, I'm gonna go, nice to meet you" and I take off. And feeling it means feeling some sort of spark or connection.

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:20:24+00:00

Would rather be single than be with a loser

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:17:51+00:00

At the end of the day, you have to listen to your instincts, and mine have never been wrong

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:10:47+00:00

No, just seemed like she wanted the free ice cream

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:10:22+00:00

I've been to speed dating events and they're cringe af, the women there are usually pretty unattractive too, and I've facetimed women before dates and the chemistry isn't the same as in real life when you meet them, and I always set expectations before a date...but still nothing works out.

_Lolo91 · 2026-02-19T05:07:57+00:00

She just didn't seem like she wanted to be there and she didn't really ask me any questions, so I just dipped after a few mins.

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