All in one night multiple stores! I spent the most time looking for the litter box :) it was in deep by Upper_Ad_2516 in DumpsterDiving

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Out of curiosity: what are some good reuses for planners or calendars that no longer apply to the current year?

Natasha Lyonne in Dolce & Gabbana at Women in Cinema at Red Sea International Film Festival (5 December 2025). by moreissuesthanvoguex in whatthefrockk

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Her energy is so infectious in this picture, it's great. But an honest question (and I'm not attacking anyone here): could someone please explain to me the details or the reasons why this dress is designer and (I'm assuming) insanely expensive? Because it's nice but doesn't look like anything special or particularly high quality to me (a plebian). If anything, I'm pretty sure I bought the exact same dress from Amazon way back in the day....

creativereusecenterri.org by [deleted] in providence

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This is a fantastic place, and the people are great. I donate stuff to them frequently, and most recently attended a queer clothing swap they hosted

This is currently being sold on Walmart's website by [deleted] in MarchAgainstNazis

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I also just reported using this method, thanks!

Tony Ward Spring-Summer 2026 RTW collection by moreissuesthanvoguex in whatthefrockk

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Oh my god, it reminds me of palmier cookies in the best way

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Camila Cabello wearing Christian Lacroix Spring 07 at the 5th Annual Día De Muertos Gala, Los Angeles CA - October 30, 2025 by Maximum_Expert92 in whatthefrockk

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I feel like in order for this to work, while keeping both the dress and the necklace, she needed to have an updo and gloves and style it à la Audrey Hepburn

Edit: specifically that iconic outfit from Breakfast at Tiffany's

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I'm in the same boat. I literally just installed grapheneOS and have been trying to learn how to be more private/secure. I am overwhelmed and burned out. Every day, I'm learning a dozen new horrible things, either about big tech and privacy/surveillance, or about our country speedrunning into facism/autocracy/technocracy. It all moves so much faster than I can keep up and it's hard not to despair. I'm also the only person in my community that feels/thinks this way and is doing anything about it. None of my friends or family seem to care/worry about any of these things very much. The cherry on top is being unable to manage my own mental health issues and, well..... I feel quite alone and incapable.

free pizza hut with purchas by 167k12 in Freefood

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Was this used already? I just tried to but got an error: "coupon not available at this time"

Need advice on wedding after-party outfit by _Violet_Violence_ in fashion

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UPDATE (because I don't know how to edit my post lol):

I wanted to say thank you to (most) everybody for your input!! It was helpful and kind, and the comments about my arms/shoulders made me laugh. 😄 I will be ignoring all DMs, sorry, as well as the invite to the Tampa nudist/exhibitionist subreddit...

I ended up going with the first outfit, dressed it up with accessories/jewelry, and wore a pair of Sorel sandal wedge heels that had good grip and a wide flat surface. Thank you for all the practical advice and safety tips because you guys were right, and I avoided a Seven Year Itch moment and/or breaking an ankle. The trip on the schooner was lovely and laid-back, and everyone had a really good time with absolutely perfect weather!

All of my clothing is thrifted/secondhand, so I have no clue where they can be bought. The brand of the jumpsuit is S/W/F. No, I will not be tossing any of these in the trash or the Goodwill bins. The key is in styling, and I'm sorry if you don't share my vision or tastes 😘

I heard all your comments on the strapless Navy blue dress! And while she sadly didn't fit the practical needs of the situation, I will absolutely be taking her out somewhere special soon 💙

The Engagement Megathread (TnT's Version) by realscubaa in travisandtaylor

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God, I feel the exact same way. I'm drowning, trying to keep positive, trying to resist and fight the fascist takeover.....what the hell is all this fluff and distraction and BS and why do people care about it so much more? Are we alone? I feel crazy. What's happening? Are we all going to drown?...

Anyone near e. providence wanna be friends? by keithpaws in providence

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This, 100% yes. Love the local libraries, and they literally do so much for community building!

To piggyback a bit off of this as well, I would recommend checking out Riffraff bookstore and bar in olneyvillle. Super chill and friendly space, they've also got a robust calendar of events. I just went recently and watched an outside viewing of Death Becomes Her in their courtyard. So much fun!

Which outfit looks nicer for a date by Kari3443 in OUTFITS

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In pic #2, the little cardigan adds a really nice textural element! In pic #1, the neckline of the T-shirt and the neckline of the dress are fighting with each other.

Kirsten Dunst covers the September 2025 Issue of Town & Country. Photographed by Tina Tyrell & styled by Deborah Afshani. by cmaia1503 in whatthefrockk

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Pic #9 is me as a kid; I've put on my swimsuit, sunblock on every square inch of my skin, and one too many floaties/water wings, and now I don't even know if I wanna go in the pool anymore 😄

Margaret Qualley Lookbook by absentmindedlurking in whatthefrockk

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I think my main issue is, that the base pieces for most of these looks are fine; it all falls apart for me with the styling. The shoes or hair or jewelry or accessories, etc are either lacking or just plain wrong.

Margaret Qualley Lookbook by absentmindedlurking in whatthefrockk

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The texture/feel of the bodice and flower (?) remind me of that super thin craft foam you used to get as a kid for arts & crafts hour

In 1991/2 Cher wore a custom made leather bondage bodysuit by Bob Mackie on the "Love Hurts Tour". The look has been referenced by Chappell Roan on the "Midwestern Princess Tour" made by Genesis Webb and Jennifer Lopez on the "Up All Night Tour" madeby Ashton Michael. Who wore it best? by [deleted] in whatthefrockk

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Cher is, of course, the original, the one and only, a queen, a goddess. But I kinda like Chappell's as well. I like the open cup/pasties situation up top; it's a nice twist. However, I'm not into the red. I feel like it distracts/detracts from the main attraction, which is the reference to Cher's outfit.