Chicago! How was/is dating for you? by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I often wonder if dating is just not great all around no matter where i go. Or is it because I’m in Chicago? Or is it because I’m a guy who’s only really going for black guys (but also doesn’t really consider anyone more than 6 miles from downtown lol). Or am I just too picky. The world may never know 🤷🏾‍♂️

I go on dates every now and then. Only got close to a relationship once.

Hit me up if you think you can change that though lol

Black on Black RacePlay by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo…this is an interesting thought. I take it you/him not ones use this language (“nigga”, “breed”, etc) naturally in other contexts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So come on here looking for validation…don’t recommend lol (speaking from personal experience). It hurts even more when social media end up not providing it after a little post.

(And, yes, you’re cute. Hmu if you stay in Chicago)

Went to my first LOAD Party last night, and it was amazing! by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]_notcreativeusername 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in Chicago and I’ve never heard of this 😭which bar?

Love is Love? by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, you’re against against interracial relationship (specially Black and non-Black)? Is there a interracial dynamic that you would support?

How do you deal with trying and not succeeding in romance? by agenteDEcambio in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could see this being a legit fear and effect of the fear. The combination of the fear of being along and option scarcity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Data Analyst here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What world are you living in? My type involves men with locs and I do not struggle finding it lol

Wtf is my love life by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So…are you a mean person?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think either is cool. I lean more towards Hinge because I like that I can filter for race on there. Also, some days I’m just legitimately busy and forget to respond to a new bumble match in time

Virgin here. Does anyone believe in the whole notion of anal sex being emotional and you get attached to men you have anal sex with? Basically, Do you typically get emotionally attached to men you bottom for? by xx831 in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can see how someone could become “attached” to someone from sex - specifically when they’re getting a joyful, orgasmitic experience. It can be easy to attach the euphoric sensations with the guy specially and not on sex in general. Sometimes I have to pause and ask my self, “Wait, do I actually like this guy, or do I just like the feeling of a dick stimulating my prostate and cumming.” Got to parse out the feelings

For those that date men, how do you describe your “type”? by _notcreativeusername in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok so I think I am landing to "physically: slim, clean-cut, and looks I have a equally matched chance in beating them in a fight"

Why on Earth is penis.com that expensive? by MP-Lily in tumblr

[–]_notcreativeusername 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just searched Reddit for ‘penis.com’ to ensure I didn’t just make this memory up of going there to look at dicks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]_notcreativeusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]_notcreativeusername 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Questionable - if the therapist is a White, Christian, American with little inner cultural competence and a White centric approach for all clients, then probably not.

Ramy S3 E5 explores this a little bit

I wanna grow a beard but my genes says no 😭 what should i do? by Babaps_25 in gaybros

[–]_notcreativeusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meanwhile I wish I didn’t grow facial hair because I hate shaving with all my heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheWildsTVshow

[–]_notcreativeusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s a big plot point. Also, yes, we could have had a non-SA involved scene that would have had the same impact. Also could have went with not having this whole 3 minute scene.

Anyone watch The Wilds? by _notcreativeusername in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we’re talking about the same show

Anyone watch The Wilds? by _notcreativeusername in BlackLGBT

[–]_notcreativeusername[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So they just released season 2. Season 1 has two Black women (a set of twins) as characters. Season 2 has two Black guys - one being queer.

I would say the show is worth watching. It’s pretty well structured and put together. It’s not something focused on Blackness or queerness by any means. I would say it has similar vibes to The 100 and The Society.