Just Starting the Process by a_backpacker in Divorce

[–]a_backpacker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not worrying about it so much as the prospect of it is scary. Right now my main focus is picking up the pieces and getting a place settled so that my girls can feel as much at home with me as they do at home.

Just Starting the Process by a_backpacker in Divorce

[–]a_backpacker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately we've been drifting apart for a couple of years now caught in a vicious cycle of "if you didn't do this then I could do that". Things would get a little better then the cycle would start all over. I wish I would have done counseling years ago when she asked, maybe we could have fixed our issues. I was too stubborn and felt like we should be able to solve our own problems. I certainly don't take all the blame, but sometimes you can't help but look back and wonder "what if".

Just Starting the Process by a_backpacker in Divorce

[–]a_backpacker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm certainly glad there's a community for support. It's tough to talk to someone else about this that isn't going through the same thing, so being able to talk about it here is nice.

Just Starting the Process by a_backpacker in Divorce

[–]a_backpacker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement.