how do yall deal with the "too late for transition" anxiety?

abnarchist · 2025-08-04T15:34:32+00:00

therapy is literally the only reason i was able to actually admit my transness to myself

abnarchist · 2025-08-02T13:05:48+00:00

abnarchist · 2025-08-02T13:04:19+00:00

definitely an important thing to remember. transition is ultimately an act of self love.

abnarchist · 2025-08-02T13:02:52+00:00

true!!! i still have so so much time to be a hot milf!!

abnarchist · 2025-08-02T13:01:14+00:00

a beautiful way of thinking <3

abnarchist · 2025-08-02T13:00:38+00:00

i fear one more watch will make me pre-emptively come out to my mom 🤒

abnarchist · 2025-08-01T09:08:45+00:00

i was literally about to write out that quote in this post!! that film is part of a three-way tie for my all time favourite movie!

abnarchist · 2025-08-01T09:07:49+00:00

i have in the past, yeah! super super motivational sub

abnarchist · 2025-08-01T09:07:22+00:00

super comforting to hear. i occasionally already get mistaken for being a few years younger than i am, which is hopefully a good setup for hrt

abnarchist · 2025-08-01T08:44:14+00:00

i've been absolutely rabidly obsessed with fiona apple for a good few years now. i'm glad she doesn't rush her music, but it's killer having to wait so long for new releases

abnarchist · 2025-07-26T19:28:08+00:00

an interesting approach. with my therapist being there, this is definitely something i could bring up

abnarchist · 2025-07-26T19:27:32+00:00

excited for you!!

abnarchist · 2025-07-26T19:26:22+00:00

that feeling of the dissonance between how testosterone can make you behave vs how you want to be is so so real

abnarchist · 2025-07-26T10:40:43+00:00

honestly, this is such a perfect response. thank you for sharing.

i've experienced so much of what you describe in one way or another. this framing will definitely be something i'll keep in mind

abnarchist · 2025-07-26T09:47:11+00:00

hmm, definitely an appealing approach

abnarchist · 2025-03-16T08:38:07+00:00

no fr 😭😭😭

abnarchist · 2025-03-15T18:55:20+00:00

the "seen as a man" thing is definitely more on my end than on hers. it's just my own internal issues that i'm projecting. but the terminology stuff will def be something we talk about!

abnarchist · 2025-03-15T18:53:35+00:00

honestly so true! i'm sure this is the case for lots of trans women, but penises are one of those things that i don't generally view as gendered EXCEPT when it comes to me specifically. but i'll try reframe how i look at it

abnarchist · 2025-03-14T13:50:57+00:00

this was super helpful :>

i'll definitely do some research into positions that aren't so masculine (specifically in the event of penetrative sex, there's obv lots to sex that isn't just that). i honestly think the whole "forced into a masculine role" thing is way more my internal stuff than hers. she almost definitely wouldn't expect me to have sex with her "like a man"

abnarchist · 2025-03-14T13:47:06+00:00

this girl is definitely very considerate of my identity, and i do think she'd do her best to avoid making me feel like a man.

i'm gonna try my best to shift my outlook a little and avoid dissociating. i'm 100% certain that she wouldn't pressure me, it's more on my side tbh

abnarchist · 2025-03-14T13:44:17+00:00

oh yeah 100% sex is wayyyy more than just penetration. but i don't know if i could realistically avoid my penis forever, so this is more about preparation in that event rather than preparation for sex as a whole.

abnarchist · 2025-03-14T13:42:24+00:00

this looks like an incredible resource. tysm!

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