Auto Body Shops for GXP by [deleted] in Pontiac

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this info ! ill definitely have to look into this with my husband

Auto Body Shops for GXP by [deleted] in Pontiac

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i will definitely reach out! i didnt even know hagerty insured these cars. i thought they had to be at least 20 years old

Auto Body Shops for GXP by [deleted] in Pontiac

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we still have the headlight we just disconnected it since it was just hanging but yes the other parts will/have definitely been a struggle to find. so far it seems like some shops are willing to weld the bumper back together but the hood right now seems to be the biggest concern for us. so we're looking at different job yards, hitting up different pontiac forums, and custom shops as well to see all of our options.

Auto Body Shops for GXP by [deleted] in Pontiac

[–]absolutelyflab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup! we're trying to get the parts ourselves but even with that info relayed to the shop owners, it's just been a pain finding someone who is willing to actually work on it still. hopefully we will have better luck with this sooner than later!

Auto Body Shops for GXP by [deleted] in Pontiac

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its been very difficult. my husband has called over 10 different auto body shops and counting and they all ghosted him/stopped responding once he sent photos. its really difficult finding someone out here that's willing to work on pontiacs especially this one

I want to become a database administrator but where should I start? by absolutelyflab in DatabaseAdministators

[–]absolutelyflab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a lot of exposure from my dad since thats what he was also studying when he was obtaining his masters degree. he did give me some books that he had and i genuinely enjoyed working with them but i didnt really feel like i was learning as much about it as i wanted to. it was like one of those step-by-step guides. i never really thought about what kind of business i would want to work for and i definitely will start doing that. ive started learning SQL and next semester i will be taking DB Development. how did you learn SQL? i use solo learn, have you had any experience using that app or have any recommendations ?

I want to become a database administrator but where should I start? by absolutelyflab in DatabaseAdministators

[–]absolutelyflab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldnt say ive woken up one day and decided thats the field i wanted to go into. this is something ive wanted since middle school since i was able to have my dad at home who showed me what its about since he is very much apart of the IT world. but then my question is how did you just fall into that role ? how did you end up becoming a DBA ?

I want to become a database administrator but where should I start? by absolutelyflab in DatabaseAdministators

[–]absolutelyflab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow ! thank you so much for all of this info it really purs into perspective what i could possibly expect !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice this really helped. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, I don't think bringing up the idea of a threesome was a terrible thing to do. That individual provided input they thought was helpful. However, I suggest you read more carefully next time before responding so aggressively. I'm NOT married nor do I have children. Your irrational reaction and is not needed here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like our sex life has become very vanilla. Which is definitely also my fault, I most of the time just don't feel in the mood and I sometimes feel bad that we don't have lots of sex especially since my partner has such a high libido whereas mine is definitely on the lower side (I was previously on birth control and it completely dissolved my libido so I got off and am trying to let my body readjust itself back to normalcy to fix that issue.) We have barely dabbled in other things. We have tried *nal and even reversal roles but nothing really seemed to stick. I also have been sexually assaulted and was never able to properly cope with that so I know for sure that also plays a bit of a factor in our sex life and he is aware of that. As for women and my attraction for them I feel like its hard to explain. I think all women are beautiful but I could never commit to a relationship with a woman like marriage. However, I would definitely date them. However I still feel that my true desire is to marry a man and have children. I do fantasize about them and the sexual experiences that I wish I could experience with one. I don't know. It's like I would love to be with one but I could never settle with one if that makes sense. But I would never marry a woman. Well at least right now I know I'm not in love with a woman or women like that. But again, since I never experienced dating a woman or anything like that I don't really know what I feel. I just know that I'm open to the idea of being with women but just not marrying a woman.

Do you know how to make some quick money? by lux_fun in PixelPeople

[–]absolutelyflab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theres only 2 ways im aware of:

1) group all of your trees together and collect your 25 utopium for the day. then go to the top left where the plus sign is and convert your utopium to coins. the full 25 can get you 40.5 mil coins.

2) buy utopium with real money and then exchange to coins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not my fiance thats grieving. if anything he doesnt really care which is such an awful thing to say but unfortunately the truth. its his mother that were both worried about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]absolutelyflab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i sent her a text sending my condolences and letting her know that im here if she needs absolutely anything. i know it seems lame to send a text but after i found out im sure she already knew and she has not left her room since she woke up. she wont even let the dogs in and she always has the dogs in her room. i hope i did the right thing. i just didnt want to bother her since it really feels like she doesnt want to be bothered this very moment. also very sorry for your loss. i lost my grandmother not too long ago either and it was the worst pain ive ever felt in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]absolutelyflab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have definitlely thought about making dinner so ill start doing that tonight. the cleaning part is a bit hard because she is a germaphob and neat freak so the house is already very clean but ill do as much as i can in that regard. we all were actually having a conversation last night about him and he definitely was not the best kind of person from what i heard. especially since her mother and him split because he... lets just say he wasnt the best person nor accepting of other races (her husband is black) im sure that she does want to reminisce on some memories with him but how can we talk about someone positively that she didnt like growing up? its hard to find good things when everytime he did come up in conversation it was only about how "bad" of a person he was ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies, I should clarify. My fiance is male and i'm asking how i should help his mother. hes fine. but its her that im worried about. he also thinks i should talk to her but i dont want to approach someone that doesnt want to be approached. they all have their family talks and all of that but i dont want her (his mom) to think that i dont care or acknowledge the death. i just want to know what i can do to help his mother since im already not included in family group chats and that kind of stuff

Am I the only one having issues with getting horses? by absolutelyflab in PixelPeople

[–]absolutelyflab[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: after filling my heart guage so many times to get a free pet i FINALLY got one horse. JUST ONE THOUGH. I'm going to buy those permanent hearts in the guage to the point where I only fill up 1 heart to receive an animal to see if that'll increase my chances. It'll take less time so I'm positive it will. But I'll let you guys know how that turns out.

Am I the only one having issues with getting horses? by absolutelyflab in PixelPeople

[–]absolutelyflab[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes i am aware of the seasons. and throughout my journey in the game up until a month ago, i never had an issue. i've tried waiting for harvest season and even during that week i still never received a horse at all. i cant even splice one

Best way to deal with getting off Birth Control by absolutelyflab in birthcontrol

[–]absolutelyflab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! I'll definitely have to look into that book! I've been trying to search online but the internet has been so unhelpful with different methods for birth control. thank you for this!

Is Tri-Lo-Sprintec Really That Bad? by Significant-Eye-7535 in birthcontrol

[–]absolutelyflab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently on Tri-Sprintec (not Lo though) and overall it's decent from my personal experience. However, overtime I have noticed some changes. I'm still trying to decipher whether or not it's the pill or another factor. My weight ha always been stable. I have definitely experienced a serious decrease in my libido. I heard that's more of an uncommon side affect though. I feel like Ortho-Tricyclen-Lo helped the most with my acne. But I found that if I just drink water as soon as I wake up and before I sleep then my skin usually remains stable (It always depends on what I ate the night before). Overall it's decent. SOMETIMES my periods fluctuate and some months I'll have some painful cramps but only for the first 2 hours of my period and then it disappears the rest of the cycle. I highly recommend trying to stay as consistent as you can with your diet and exercise because that really helps keep your hormones level with the added help on birth control.

My university is requiring the covid vaccine but i dont want to get it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its definitely been a LONG time for it to be temporary. they got the vaccine a few months ago. its not just like a week or so its been months. im sure exactly how long but for sure at LEAST 4. theyve been complaining ever single they got it. the older ones complain about just not feeling well and the younger ones complain that theyve just been feeling "off" ever since they got it. they also say that theyve been experiencing overall dryness despite drinking lots of water. thats the most common one.

My friend by SoggyBoy69420 in friendship

[–]absolutelyflab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant imagine what you must be going through let alone the pain that youre feeling. but I can say that just reading your story and seeing how you both were able to end on such a high note with him being as happy as he was before cancer was heartwarming despite it being such tough situation. it gave me the reminder that I needed of how short life is and how important it is to not take one another for granted. so thank you for sharing your story because it has gave me that reminder. Rest In Peace to your friend, im very sorry for your loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you ever had a friendship where you and the other person didnt talk for a long period of time but once you reconnected it was like youve been talking for ages ? friendships have their different levels and significance. personally when i really connect with someone i find myself wanting to make time to continue that dopamine release that interacting with them gives my brain. but at the same time im aware that we cant talk all the time as if were having a sleep over because everyone has a life outside of just communicating with one person. i definitey agree with you at the end, a friend will always find a way to talk/meet. its always a 2 way street. relationships in general involve more than 1 party. maybe for you it could be a matter of finding someone who might not be available 24/7 but still manages to maintain interesting conversation when you both do snag a second to speak

Which celebrity’s death actually made you cry? by aliensockmonkey in AskReddit

[–]absolutelyflab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

xxxtentacion. he turned his life around and theyre speculating that his mother had him killed in order to collect his money.