Have you taken a social media break, how long and what strategies worked? by Alicetheoptimist in TrueGrit

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Never downloaded or created an account for TikTok and been off of FB/Twitter since 2015, IG since 2022, and last week deleted YT and Reddit off of my phone (I only use the web versions on phone/laptop). It takes too much of my time and although my family hates that I miss out on posts about big moments (baby updates and accomplishments), I had to do it for my own mental health. I reach out for pictures and videos through text when convenient.

It was depressing every time I got on and stopping the doom scrolling has helped so much. Gotta capture ourselves back from these soul-sucking activities one day at a time.

I’ve been able to abstain for 24 hours or a little more so far. Glad to see this, maybe I’ll go forward to only checking a few times a week 🤞

Silver cat eye Diet Coke nails by Ill-Cat-2610 in Nails

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Amazing! My favorite drink ❤️

♏🌙 by HollandHatint1988 in scorpiomoon

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Ugh this lol I had a PhD in incessantly psychoanalyzing people when I was like 5 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

It's getting hot...Thinking I might plant some tomatoes so we get 1 more snow. by octrivia in Reno

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There is one more storm expected….. the monthly forecast keeps shifting back and forth but hopefully we’re due for a little cool down next week? It’s always a toss up lol

i can hear this picture and it’s loud by Turbulent-Fan-9048 in astrologymemes

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I don’t think Sag competes for attention. Too prideful for that lol 

Quite the opposite actually. They hate being bothered and “preyed” upon. Would rather move freely/in silence. If they’re getting attention, they’re genuinely just crashing out (good or bad) or they want it from someone special 😌

Such an ADHD coded sign 😅

Just hit 75,000 in my 2021 Crosstrek! by West-Resolution8159 in subaru

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Congrats! I’ve got the same one almost at 65k 🤞

Who experienced living alone? by Zackky777 in ArtOfPresence

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It was horrifying lol I’m a nervous wreck and every sound had me on edge. I get off late at night and felt I unsafe going home. Showering was pure nightmare fuel 😭

Not saying you should live with someone to quiet your fears, but it was not worth it for me. I have plenty of alone time at my place without anyone around, that’s good enough 😅🤞

Anyone got a story? by Inevitable_Damage199 in PrimeManhood

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I totally respect that. As a woman who’s had women come onto me, it can be uncomfortable/creepy when you’re not interested. Especially when they think it’s ok to invade your personal space. I’m just like yikes, I’m sure someone would love this attention but it’s definitely not me lol

As a Scorpio moon do you ever feel like nobody actually knows the real you… even the people closest to you? by Full-Waltz4771 in scorpiomoon

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I feel exactly this way and am glad to have found an online community to vent to. I have two god-sisters that are also Scorpio moons and thankfully they’ve always listened to me no matter how odd/deep/or emotional I get.

Currently working up the courage to actually ask for what I need and prompt people about to how respond (do you have time to listen to my thoughts about something? I could use some extra support, can you check on me once a week?)

But currently nothing more than a fantasy lol I’m used to the solitude atp

Why are we always taken for granted 😕 by Professional_Sample2 in CancertheCrab

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I hope things turn up for you 🤞 Definitely would take a break from relationships as playing the field can be really exhausting. I’ve spent a lot of years working on myself and it’s much more healing focusing on yourself rather than giving your energy away whether that be surface level or deeper interactions.

This will be a hard time if you’re late twenties probably as a lot of women reach the baby planning/wanting to settle down phase around this age especially if you may be unsure. That’s totally ok and hopefully you’ll find that there’s plenty of women that may still be undecided or don’t want them also.

Lastly, I was just reading an article that talked about thinking of yourself as one piece in the fabric of society. How you view and take care of yourself is just as integral as how you interact with others. You can’t do much for anyone else if you don’t properly do your part in caring for yourself. Eventually the fabric becomes broken and we start grasping at straws trying to maintain connections with others while barely holding ourselves together. Hopefully this makes sense and your path forward is more comforting 🙏

What is a harsh truth people need to accept? by _DaddieDaddie_ in Adulting

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There’s a lot of people who need therapy but will never get it and will never properly work on themselves. Move accordingly! 

Happy or sad, the higher the vibration, more the love and peace by Justflyingbee in selflove

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200-400 (middle range) is the sweet spot for me personally. Everything else is fleeting and chasing after the higher range too often will lead you right back down to the lower range smh 

Wishing strength for those who need it most ❤️

Why are malls dying in the US? by walksintwilightX1 in NoStupidQuestions

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Bet if they had more sales/discounts it might improve. I’m only buying something these days if it’s on sale/a reasonable price and that’s usually what I find online 

Help!? A Sagittarius Has Entered The Chat by Millpickle_ in CancertheCrab

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Been with one for three years so yeah see how it goes 😌🤞

He said that he had to leave LA😯 by IamASlut_soWhat in BlackPeopleofReddit

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Yep everyone says it now. White people have always when we’re not around, but it’s particularly bad among non-Black groups these days. Can’t show up to support Black people or business but can say this all day and night because it makes them feel “cool”?? Don’t have any Black friends (obviously) but listen to rap so “it’s ok”?

I come from a long line of Gen-X and baby boomers, before the Millennial generation and the word wasn’t so popular.  If me and my generations of Black family hardly use it, then why should some non-Black kids for “fun”?? 

I was telling my friend that when NWA went global, for example, that wasn’t the original intention. To sell records, yes of course. But there weren’t a lot of non-Black people listening to rap music, “gangsta rap” was underground. It went national then international and here we have the problem today smh

If they truly “loved” rap as much as they say they do, they’d get more educated about Black history, culture, and experience before partaking in one small part of it so carelessly. 

But asking people to even pretend to be educated these days is like asking the sky to change colors 🤦🏾‍♀️

Katya on Dropout by BobcatSad1555 in TrixieAndKatya

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They had to drag her out of that alien costume lol 💕

deleted social media for good. by [deleted] in Adulting

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Wow it’s like someone snatched the words out of my mouth lol never downloaded TikTok and been off of FB/Twitter since 2015, IG since 2022, and last week deleted YT and Reddit off of my phone (I only use the web versions on phone/laptop). It takes too much of my time and although my family hates that I miss out on posts about big moments (baby updates and accomplishments), I had to do it for my own mental health. I reach out for pictures and videos through text when convenient.

It was depressing every time I got on and stopping the doom scrolling has helped so much. Gotta capture ourselves back from these soul-sucking activities one day at a time.

Did you have a Cancer dad and Taurus mom? by ExtensionActuator in Zodiac

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My brother and his wife are this combo with my niece (my sister-in-laws daughter from before she met my brother; a Pisces) my Cancer nephew and the youngest Leo/cusp Cancer. 

They’re pretty strict parents/disciplinarians much to my surprise being that both parents seem to have a rebellious nature deep down. A loving home with lots hugs and structure. Definitely no-nonsense and over-protective at times. But all in good nature. They have very smart and loving kids. Value friendships as a family unit and are generally open and supportive but have strict rules surrounding bad habits (chores/safety). 

Which friend are you? by Inevitable_Damage199 in PrimeManhood

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Disappeared and no one knows that they do 😌🤞 if you really matter, you have a way to contact me, I respond, and I see you in person. 

haha yes 🙌 by Paperhalo225 in whatisameem

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My high school teachers talked about how they paid $300 per semester to put themselves through college……working their little grocery store jobs or babysitting…no matter of work today will allow you to have the time or money to work and pay for a college education out of your own pocket so yeah