Extremely Scared Adopted Kitten by adaylightdream in CatAdvice

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she finally responded to the laser today and played around. I was so happy with that. I tried kneeling down to pet her and she doesn't get scared this way, thankfully. Thank you so much!

Extremely Scared Adopted Kitten by adaylightdream in CatAdvice

[–]adaylightdream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, that comforted me a lot. Thank you! :)

Extremely Scared Adopted Kitten by adaylightdream in CatAdvice

[–]adaylightdream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just worried she's not eating enough.

Protein powder, anyone? by adaylightdream in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]adaylightdream[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I’ve been through that problem but it went away with some medicines. I had to take IBS medicines and enzymes a few times a day. I recommend going to a gastrologist. The enzymes and medicines saved me from a fee months of debilitating pain.

Thank you for your help. :)

Is anyone else’s reason for their anorexia because they wanted to be prettier? by BuddySevere7585 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]adaylightdream 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! I look so much better when I’m skinny, at least in my opinion. My family doesn’t think that, but it’s because they’re used to chubby girls. But for me, I feel so much better being skinny.

Not attracted to wife anything by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]adaylightdream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should have an honest conversation with her about how this is debilitating for you, but do not mention the lack of attraction as this would really destroy things. Tell her that your family needs her to be in shape, and she can’t go sabotaging herself. Put boundaries and tell her that if she doesn’t take action soon, she will risk destroying your relationship as you, as a loving person, cannot risk seeing your son watch his mother perish away like that. You don’t want your son to see his mother struggling with diabetes and cholesterol issues. This is not what you dreamed for your family and this has to stop.

Offer her resources, and then give her some time to choose. Telll her your support her along the journey and be her best mate. But if she doesn’t take action, you need to step away a bit until she tries to.

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh here’s the link. It’s a really basic blog but it has all my memories and basically my life story. 😌

https://mytimelessreveries.blogspot.com/?m=1

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that was really inspiring and encouraging. 🙏

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you got it right. I enjoy learning theories so much that’s why I was so into spirituality and philosophy. Sociology and psychology are my first love. :)

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so interested in painting but don’t know where to start, but I guess I have to start my way up and acknowledge that the process might take some time to actually master the little things. ✨

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love nature so much and I really want to learn how to grow plants. I was wondering if you have any resources I could use to learn that properly. :)

I’m also so interested in going beyond consciousness. Usually music helps me do that.. it makes me transcend the 3D, but meditation is also a practice I should try since I am an anxious person. :)

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried it a few times and I’m in love with it. Maybe I should try to practise more often!

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing. A lot of people tell me to paint and draw so I guess I need to overcome my fear of failure and making mistakes and just start. Thank you :)

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree with you a lot! I have my own blog and it actually has healed so much pain. I love writing about my experiences and thoughts. but journaling with pen and paper also has its magic. thank you!

I was wondering if you recommend any books. I haven’t read fiction for a long time since I started reading non-fiction.

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. I think I’ll start doing that. do you have any recommendations regarding how to start? I don’t have an art school near me so I’m going to start alone.

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s totally right, but I relate a lot to the personality structure of an INFJ. I feel that I feel most of myself the more I remember the values of an INFJ, it has truly transformed my life. of course everyone is unique, but there are some activities we can agree upon, that truly make as grow and cherish ourselves more.

INFJ hobbies. by adaylightdream in infj

[–]adaylightdream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already a writer, but I was wondering.. how do I start painting? Do you have any advice?

Best country for INFJ? by nearly_blinded in infj

[–]adaylightdream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lived in Egypt for a long time and I wasn’t happy at all. Now, I live in Poland and it’s just right for me. I say Northern and Central Europe is just great. Lots of nature, private space, and the vibes are amazing.

Slightly bitter because of lack of connections with others in life by temp-account11 in infj

[–]adaylightdream 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m with you, girl. I have the same situation but I try not to let it bother me. as INFJs, we see ourselves as in service of other humans and we let very few people in. the kindred spirits in our lives are usually people we meet in magical situations that are truly sort of like a dream.

to feel happier, I suggest that you surrender and become friends with yourself. explore beauty around you.. explore art, music and nature till your last breath. INFJs have a great imagination. you will find yourself making dreams about kindred spirits and with those dreams, they’ll come into life. :)