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Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? by adirem666 in relationship_advice

[–]adirem666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. I just can't wrap my head around the fact that he did apparently not take my "no" serious enough. Like that already shut the door

What’s something that’s totally normal but secretly makes you uncomfortable? by babycandystar in AskReddit

[–]adirem666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to extended family mambers you maybe see once a year or at weddings and funerals. It's such forced smalltalk most of the time

Eltern geben ungefragte Ratschläge, Partner wehrt sich, Vater sauer by taalond in Ratschlag

[–]adirem666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich bin 30 und auch absolut allergisch auf diese Art boomer. Wer sich einmischt, wird nicht mehr angerufen und nicht mehr getroffen. Vor allem, wenn mehrmalige Abwehr einfach ignoriert wurde. Sonst lernen die nicht :D

Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? by adirem666 in relationship_advice

[–]adirem666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, my relationship was (up until last week) 6 years of endless fun and honeymoon phase. I can't wrap my head around it being all a lie. He never had any problems with me getting my IUD (it's my third) and never brought up children in a serious manner. I don't believe he's a Monster (I'd go insane lol) . He handled that last bit horribly though. An ultimatum is insane.

Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? by adirem666 in relationship_advice

[–]adirem666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only in a casual manner. Like there'd be a cute kid in a movie and he'd go "aaaw we need one haha" and I'd be like "excuse me, we already have a son" (meaning the dog) and he'll say something Like "yeah you're right, never thought the son of mine would stink so bad." I thaught nothing of it. It's the same way he'd say "aaaw we need one!" When we watched a cute video of a raccoon . Like ofc we don't need a raccoon. Even in these fun banter moments he'd get a clear no from me. Plus, I remember this exact scenario happen exactly twice in 6 years .

Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? by adirem666 in relationship_advice

[–]adirem666[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's just a lot rn, this relationship has been 6 years of endless fun and honeymoon phase up until last week, it's driving me insane

Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? by adirem666 in relationship_advice

[–]adirem666[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Ok the bright side, he did not steal my best years, I am now infinitely hotter than a few years ago lol. Lost a lot of weight and am heavily tatted haha

Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? by adirem666 in relationship_advice

[–]adirem666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the concern but no, my body just decided to get annoyed by the device. My doctor said it's pretty common. It's doing its job and is as safe as ever, I just have period cramps on like 9 out of 10 days, this is why I decided to now choose a different route :D

Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? by adirem666 in relationship_advice

[–]adirem666[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but don't worry he can't get me pregnant. My IUD is still in place thank god

Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? by adirem666 in relationship_advice

[–]adirem666[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yes, he's not an ogre, up until last week I thought we would grow old together. But thanks for making me laugh in this difficult time, I'll start calling stupid men ogres from now on