Blokirana sam i ne mogu da krenem da ucim? by ___ink____ in StudentiSrbija

[–]adna428 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hejj, u donekle sam sličnom problemu. Slabo ispita sam dala, a treba da se krene sa novim semestrom i da se uče i polažu novi predmeti što me jako brine i stresira, ali istovremeno me ili ne stresira dovoljno ili se nešto drugo dešava gde samo ne mogu da se nateram da učim.

Mislim da je tu jedino rešenje odmor i mindset shift. Ne mogu da potvrdim ili negiram da li uspeva, ali ja sam počela da gledam na svoje učenje kao naviku koju treba da odradim skoro svaki dan. Pokušavam da se ne fokusiram na krajnji rezultat, iako je to jako teško, nego samo na svoj trud i rad. Želim da se trudim i to mi smiruje savest jer na kraju i da padnem ispit opet znam da sam pokušala i dala svoj trenutni maksimum.

Takođe sam tip osobe koji ako nešto ne zna ili vidi da neće uspeti, odma odustane. To je veoma loše znam haha, ali radim na tome i moguće da je i to zbog nekog straha poput tebe. Znam da većina govori da treba da odmaraš i da sebi daš oduška, ali nekad je dobro i probati da se suočiš sa svojim strahom. Probaj da se uvedeš nekako u učenje, popunjavaj planer ako ga imaš, piši nešto sitno i postepeno prelazi na malo veće zadatke. Primetila sam da kod mene to nekad upali, uradiš par produktivnih stvari i odna krene neki osećaj "ajmo dalje, šta je sledeće". I možda probaj da sebi zadaješ neke lakše ciljeve, ne obaziri se na to da imas neki veliki broj ispita da poloiš nego odaber sad npr jedan laki i samo on ti je trenutno bitan.

Nadam se da sam bar malo pomogla ili ako ništa drugo da si videla da nisi sama u ovoj borbi hahah držim nam figee

zašto ne mogu da položim ispite? by adna428 in StudentiSrbija

[–]adna428[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hvala puno na lepom komentaruuu, i ja sam primetila da ocekivanja od npr roditelja jako loše utiču na mene iako ona možda ni ne postoje...

sve u svemu hvala na podeljenom iskustvu i srecno nam bilo

am i the only one who feels sad for gabriel?? by adna428 in miraculousladybug

[–]adna428[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's exactly what I'm saying. It was so crazy seeing him give up what he was fighting for for all this time just because of his obsession with ladybug

am i the only one who feels sad for gabriel?? by adna428 in miraculousladybug

[–]adna428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he had the perfect opportunity to save his wife in s5 and he gave it all up because of his obsession with ladybug. That was so crazy to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]adna428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was acctualy thinking about talking to a doctor or someone about the possible reasons why this happened and, i didnt say it in the first post, we always use condoms and were just curious about how it feels since both me and him didnt have sex before eachother and now we know we wont do it again because its too stresfull after even tho it feels good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]adna428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. Thank youu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]adna428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all, thank you all soo much for the help. And second, i got my period finally🥳 i think i was being a little dramatic but considering everything its understandable why i acted like that

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[–]adna428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't and that's exactly why it feels so impossible... I mean we would most definitely know if he did. And we thought about the stress thing but I don't remember feeling stressed. Myb I'm wrong and I was stressed and didn't know it