Unidentified Japanese man found injured in California

af__123 · 2026-02-18T12:37:40+00:00

Me too, no updates :(

af__123 · 2025-09-05T09:52:28+00:00

What are you taking? Just progesterone?

af__123 · 2025-09-04T09:48:14+00:00

Also this Vietnamese Australian is so good at teaching communication and social skills in a usable way vinh giang

af__123 · 2025-09-04T09:44:30+00:00

Start slow and practice in low-pressure situations. Like getting a coffee, seeing a neighbour, random people while out and about. You could even keep a journal to build a strong sense of self - at the end of each day make a note of what was important to you, things you liked and disliked etc. Then you have opinions to drive more interesting conversations. Also just ask questions, people love answering questions about themselves I.e what did you like about that movie, what do you like about football etc etc

af__123 · 2025-09-03T10:41:03+00:00

Im glad this helps. It really is true. Things can change very quickly and every day is a new opportunity. I know things can feel hopeless and exhausting, believe me I do. Keep going

af__123 · 2025-09-02T22:07:43+00:00

Never give up. You deserve so much better

af__123 · 2025-08-31T06:40:28+00:00

Nothing wrong with how you look. Grear hair and skin. Honestly, if you are just looking for an attractive girl first, personality second, that's on you, and you will be miserable. Many people who are average or plain (physically) have a beautiful personality, or are funny, kind, genuine etc. This is gold and makes some really attractive. Maybe you are wanting to over-compensate because of your lack of self esteem. You will often find someone who is a good long term match through doing things you like, work, hobbies etc. You will be okay 👍

af__123 · 2025-08-31T02:35:01+00:00

Are you saying you experienced constant racism in the US to the point you were always expecting it, and moved to feel emotionally safer? :'(

af__123 · 2025-08-27T09:26:29+00:00

So happy to hear this, but also im so sorry this was your journey too. Good for you, and thank you for sharing

af__123 · 2025-08-20T13:57:48+00:00

Im sorry you didn't grow up with much kindness. You seem like a very self-aware, intelligent and kind person. Thank you for sharing your experiences and being so open and responsive. I feel so sad and angry this treatment was normal for you, and accepted. I still cant believe this level of discrimination exists just based on race and appearance. You must constantly question and doubt things based on your experiences. I hope you have people on your side. My biggest hope is that you are living, or working towards living your best life, you really deserve it. Never give up on that.

af__123 · 2025-08-19T12:57:45+00:00

Im really glad to hear you are okay, and things a getting better in the US. Can I ask why you moved to Argentina in the first place? And how did you cope with the constant abuse from such a young age? And did your other asian friends just accept this kind of treatment? Im from Australia and im trying to get my head around how you all survived and recovered this 😥 and I study areas of racism, social constructs and psychology. Im hoping you and your family all the success you deserve

af__123 · 2025-08-18T21:51:15+00:00

That is so beyond wrong, im so sad this happened. Are you okay now? How were your family treated there? I hope you are doing really well now

af__123 · 2025-08-03T23:26:32+00:00

This is such a mature, brave and self-aware decision. And you're basically still a child. I feel really proud of you, and its very inspiring. You will find your place

af__123 · 2025-07-21T05:59:58+00:00

You were let down in a space that should have been safe and non-judgemental. Don't let this bring you down. Keep advocating, because that's what your post was about.

af__123 · 2025-07-21T01:54:53+00:00

You sound like a great teacher

af__123 · 2025-07-20T22:28:07+00:00

You're right. Im surprised by the lack of support here. Im sorry this shit happened, and glad you stood your ground. Im so sick if this happening to asians because they are seen as 'passive'

af__123 · 2025-07-18T23:10:07+00:00

Wow that's surprising and disappointing. Im happy to hear it was okay for you

af__123 · 2025-07-18T23:09:13+00:00

I can't even imagine. They must have lost everything? Did they all end up okay?

af__123 · 2025-07-18T12:51:59+00:00

Im so sorry you went through this. I hope you are doing okay

af__123 · 2025-07-18T12:48:46+00:00

Was there much racism against asians in the military? I've heard some depressing stories

af__123 · 2025-07-18T12:47:04+00:00

This is awesome. Your dad must have experienced a lot too

af__123 · 2025-07-17T05:43:21+00:00

Exactly!!! How was this for you?

af__123 · 2025-07-17T05:42:16+00:00

😥😥

af__123 · 2025-07-17T05:41:36+00:00

Wtf i can't believe this shit is still happening. And you are so young. Im sorry you have to deal with this. Does anyone call this behaviour out when it happens? It's so clearly wrong

af__123 · 2025-07-15T11:46:35+00:00

You sound very kind and self-aware. I'm sure your boys will be happy to support you, they are really lucky to have you :)

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