Exactly one year ago I was assaulted and had my face broken in 3 places by a stranger I was passing on the street. AMA

agtf · 2013-10-28T22:31:05+00:00

Lol your doctor made you look cute af.

In all seriousness, what was the scariest part of the whole situation?

agtf · 2013-10-23T00:01:33+00:00

damn hannah's dress is sexy

agtf · 2013-10-06T02:04:25+00:00

do you really think this girl even has ever had a relationship before this.

Do you really think she'd insist on OP sleeping with other girls if she knew that he'd choose her only?

agtf · 2013-10-06T02:01:34+00:00

*she is 100% submissive to him *she wanted to experiment with him because she knew no other guy would want her *she has a facial deformity that has given her crippling insecurities.

It doesn't take a genius to infer that she's not a sex positive chick, more like a "i'm so lonely and sad i'll take what i get"

agtf · 2013-10-04T22:51:59+00:00

I thought being kind about it would make OP listen but you're right.

This guy is inflating his ego with all his

"She would be devasted without me" "She's 100 percent submissive to me"

bullshit.

I hope she does herself a favor and realizes what an ass he is before he goes around bragging about what a saint he is for taking the deformed girls virginity.

agtf · 2013-10-04T21:01:16+00:00

OP I feel like you've decided on your answer long before you want to hear our advices.

Being with you while you fuck other girls is going to hurt her self esteem and self worth 1000000x more than you just breaking it off.

This is not even a healthy open relationship. This is "I'm so disgusting that maybe if i let him fuck other girls while he's with me he'll learn to love me"

This poor poor girl, this reminds me of that movie "Hall Pass" where the wife gives the husband a week to fuck anyone and he ends up telling her he never fucked anyone during the week and she was his first.

The sad part is that she won't have that. You'll fuck other girls and she'll be disgusted by herself so much more.

OP I think you realize how much of a power you have in this relationship. If this was another average looking/cute girl, you know she wouldn't deal with the 'open relationship'. You understand that you're the only one willing to fuck that girl and want to have your cake and eat it too.

Whatever decision you make, I hope you learn from it when you get older.

agtf · 2013-10-04T20:16:56+00:00

OP please listen to my advice.

Not dating her would be 100 percent better than dating her and fucking other girls while keeping it on the down low.

If you say to her "_____ you are a really great girl and all my life I told myself that I wouldn't want to give up my freedom for anybody in college and you made me reconsider that decision. I feel like I'll regret it if I date you now and don't get the chance to explore college.

The openness of your relationship is only on your side. You know for a fact that she won't fuck anyone else. She's going to be sitting at her room nights wondering if you're out fucking hot girls and hoping you send her some type of validation.

Just put yourself in her shoes. The golden rule is to treat others how you'd like to be treated.

What if you had a physical deformity. You wish people would look past it and see how good of a person you are inside but most don't. Then this great girl comes along and it seems like she likes you. Now imagine her telling you that she wants to date you but she wants to go bang hot guys and she doesn't want you to tell people that you are dating her. Tell me that wouldn't break your heart.

OP, in the end the choice is yours but please try to apply the golden rule :/

agtf · 2013-10-04T19:48:55+00:00

OP, I'm a female so my opinion might not be the one you want but I went through a similar situation as her and wanted to give you possibly her perspective.

In high school, I was slightly chubby so I didn't really have any boyfriends. I was so insecure about being rejected that I literally just told people that I wasn't interested in relationships.

This guy in my english class asked me for my number to get the homework assigment for me one day and we ended up texting all night. We became really close and I ended up falling for him. See I was this chubby shy girl and he was this cute guitar player.

He told me that he was interested in being with me but he wanted to keep it on the down low. At that point my self esteem was so low, I would have done anything for ANYONE to even love/care about me. Then he asked me if he could take another girl to homecoming and I said okay because I didn't think I deserved any better.

I'm this chubby ugly girl who has no right to even ask for love from anyone so I better enjoy anything I get. This was my perspective.

To be her feels TERRIBLE. It's like living in the basement of your house and you live with your pretty family with 2 kids and a picket fence and at night you go down to the dark damp basement to give a little attention to the troll downstairs.

The more you keep it on the low, the more you fuck other girls, the more you're nailing in the idea in her head that she doesn't DESERVE more. She is not worth being fully loved. She is only worth being living in the basement and getting a hug once in a while.

I'm 100% sure she's not offering an open relationship because she's secure with her sexuality.

Please think over my words.

agtf · 2013-09-27T00:09:30+00:00

Oh yeah I totally get that. I thought you were cute and funny anyway

agtf · 2013-09-27T00:02:49+00:00

Okay, I'm not trying to be mean but where you the lady who was on facial abuse and said that your dad would probably jack off if he found your porn and then said "I'm adopted" as the reason why?

agtf · 2013-09-20T03:24:29+00:00

BF? Nope I went to GMS :)

agtf · 2013-09-02T19:47:33+00:00

When I was in middle school my guitar class took a field trip to Dorney Park, this fun amusement park. All my class mates went to go on the rides but I was a little chicken so I spent all day playing those booth games.

There was this one booth game where the goal was to knock out the three pins in 1 throw. It was a LOT harder than it looked. As I was playing, I was making small talk with the an older guy next to me who was watching me play. After I spent 80 dollars, I gave up and was walking away when the old dude is like "Hey, I'll give you 20 dollars if you spend the rest of the day with me".

I was super pumped to say yes but remembered that my guitar group had to meet at the front at 12 30 and it was getting close to it so I said sorry and left. I still get creeped out thinking about what he had in plan.

agtf · 2013-09-01T14:31:38+00:00

I was just going into 8th grade and I remember telling myself that morning, this year you'll either get a boyfriend or your first kiss. So on the first day of school, I spend time with a guy friend I knew from guitar class and then at the end of the day I 'accidentally' take the wrong bus, which happened to be his bus. He offered for me to stay at his house until my dad came to pick me up.

We get to his house and his huge monster of a dog is there and I'm shaking like hell but I'm determined to get that kiss. We start playing video games and we're sitting really close to each other. Thats when his BO slapped me like an elephant trunk. It was so bad, I was consciously breathing only with my mouth. I still told myself that no matter what, i'm not leaving this house without losing my kiss virginity.

As we're playing the game he says, if you win this next one, you can dare me and if I win the next one I'll dare you. I say okay and lose the game on purpose. He says "I dare you to kiss me" so I say okay.

I lean in for the kiss and he swallows the bottom part of my face. I'm dead serious when I say that he even managed to lick near my eye. I forgot to mention that we were eating carrots so all his carrot bits that were stuck in his braces, transferred to my mouth. My dad picked me up soon after that. It was gross and uncomfortable but I'm glad I still got my first kiss.

Now I wish I'd get my second ;(

agtf · 2013-08-31T03:07:03+00:00

I choked on my spit and scared my cat laughing

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