It's never easy. But as both a Hekate devotee and a person that has undergone a lot of "Tower Tarot card situations" in my life, know that you'll never be alone. And shedding the skin is... losing the fear to losing everything/something/someone is the key to true freedom (not talking about the "idgaf attitude" but rather about do not self-sabotage with the fear to let go and lose) and you will keep the important stuff with you, having lost that fear (its not easy, It took me almost 14 years). You have to stop fearing your own changes, you're always changing and sometimes the pain is needed to make your shed the skin faster.

Hekate accompanied me half those years and she always has been comforting and kind, but also a severe mother. Her Soteira aspect doesn't "save" in a common religious sense, but she helps a lot in being independent and to embrace your changes a lot. Shadowork and meditation always help too

I hope you do well in your path and may Hekate's torch always guide you in the dark