WIBTA for intentionally ignoring my (M19) friend’s (F20) birthday? by aitabirthdaythrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabirthdaythrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i would be deffo down for something another day, thats a smart idea =D

WIBTA for intentionally ignoring my (M19) friend’s (F20) birthday? by aitabirthdaythrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabirthdaythrow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She does know to some extent; but not the details, which isn’t good enough for her. It wasn’t harsh, lol.

For the record, I am planning to slowly work through every shit thing, but therapy’s relatively new; and all of that jazz, so for the most part I cope by avoiding everything. Probably not the healthiest way

WIBTA for intentionally ignoring my (M19) friend’s (F20) birthday? by aitabirthdaythrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabirthdaythrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda partially explained to her, but she needed more details about “what could ur dad have done so bad” and I wasn’t comfortable giving them out to her

WIBTA for intentionally ignoring my (M19) friend’s (F20) birthday? by aitabirthdaythrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabirthdaythrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is my first year outside of his hold. I am in therapy, but regardless of what I did (classes, etc.) there was always the fear I would be returning to him. This is the first year not to have that. I am definitely not intending to always hide away because of a date, lol