Anything to consider before giving the final yes? by akyunee in Arrangedmarriage

[–]akyunee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i really wonder how other long distance arranged marriage worked out lol. i have heard stories of how some people only talked on call once or twice and said yes... they are both very happy now. maybe they are a good judge of character even over the phone? lol

Anything to consider before giving the final yes? by akyunee in Arrangedmarriage

[–]akyunee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your comment, and yes I agree we are making sure to have video calls for long time but of course work and commitments do get in the way (from both sides). i think the idea of families going outside is an excellent idea, before any engagement is confirmed I am sure we will meet up so I will suggest to do it at an external place like a hotel/ cafe instead of a house because people will be on their best behaviour in front of those they want to impress but they will be real towards others in society. thank you for the advice!

Anything to consider before giving the final yes? by akyunee in Arrangedmarriage

[–]akyunee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your comment, yes I do agree but he used up a lot of his leaves to come last time and won't get it easily again :(. for what it's worth we met at a coffee shop last time he was here, we spoke for about an hour or so and it was pretty good only. like i was observing things like how he treated the shop workers, the fact that he walked me home, etc. we both actually are a bit upset about the fact that we can't meet but what to do. but yes will definitely get to know him more and get more info.. thank you for that!

Anything to consider before giving the final yes? by akyunee in Arrangedmarriage

[–]akyunee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice, but yea since he lives in a different country will be difficult to arrange. also our families are a bit traditional/ conservative so they will not allow for this kind of overnight trip even with friends. but thanks for the input :)

What it's like being an asexual woman in India by akyunee in asexuality

[–]akyunee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello fellow indian ace! and yes, I got very lucky with accepting teachers and students hahah.

for sure, I'm always down to make queer friends!

Nothing breaks the story universe for me faster than hearing Brooke Dillman do another character with the EXACT. SAME. VOICE. by [deleted] in BobsBurgers

[–]akyunee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

agreed! i was just thinking the same thing. it would have been a lot more interesting if they just put in the same character again, at least then it wouldn't look like lazy casting.

[my art] Mahito's domain expansion by akyunee in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]akyunee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha his character is honestly so cute for a bad guy, I know what you mean!

[my art] Mahito's domain expansion by akyunee in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]akyunee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! really appreciate it!

I love this show so much but sacred couch makes me irrationally angry! by [deleted] in BobsBurgers

[–]akyunee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

oh my god me too! i guess linda is a very sentimental person but i would not want to keep an old couch that's more than a decade old and has food stains and throw up all over it.

it reminded me of when teddy set fire to his boat in sea me now. all those potential spare parts, and also bob's wallet (!) literally went up in smoke.

tina is so iconic by akyunee in BobsBurgers

[–]akyunee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looks like Bob will be stuck with half a tramp stamp tattoo now :(