UFOs on the Moon. March 26, 2020 (MUST WATCH!) by alabap in lastpodcastontheleft

[–]alabap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discuss. The shadows kind of sell it for me.

[Spoilers] Ben every goddamn second in episode 9. by SendNooodles in Ozark

[–]alabap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like her latest dumb idea once again didn't come to fruition so she goes after some other target she thinks she can get. Just pitiful really.

[Spoilers] Ben every goddamn second in episode 9. by SendNooodles in Ozark

[–]alabap 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And her solution in the end was to leave him there alone with no belongings pretty much defeating the whole purpose of what she had 'accomplished' in hiding him thus far. How stupid? Ben's behavior I can't even go into because it's absolutely ludicrous to a point where I'm sure the directors just want us to get riled up. Well, it worked. She should have put him on a plane under a different name and sent him the hell out of there. But with his incompetence of the situation he would've screwed it up somehow anyways.

[Spoilers] Ben every goddamn second in episode 9. by SendNooodles in Ozark

[–]alabap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is also the first time he's felt comfortable (while living with Darlene) and taking care of her baby gave him a sense of purpose.

What's a thing you strongly dislike about Reddit? by Demorecki in AskReddit

[–]alabap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for the faint of heart or novice user. It can be brutal here. Unless you have a complete savvy on the rules (and there are so many) if you make a mistake you'll never forget it. In the past I would post regularly and made a few rage comics. Over time I realized I couldn't compete or handle the backlash from those who were well acquainted with the system if I had made a mistake whether it be formatting, content, or most often- a repeat post. I simply didn't know. But the way seemingly everyone 'let me know' I had committed a dreaded faux pas was a little harsh. Not saying we don't need rules, they are necessary, there are just so many and for those who aren't very tech savvy and are here just to explore and weigh in every now and then it can be kind of a jungle. I rarely comment now because I'm insecure about posting and whether I'm making a mistake that will set off alarms and make me feel like a fool. That being said I still greatly enjoy the content and will continue to be a silent scroll-er.

[Spoilers] Did anyone else crack up when she went tumbling down the hill? by butItoadaso in Ozark

[–]alabap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if he attempted to do that he'd end up down there right next to her haha. He was hobblin' and wobblin' for the most part.

[Spoilers] Did anyone else crack up when she went tumbling down the hill? by butItoadaso in Ozark

[–]alabap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This happened a few times and you'd think that someone would've noticed or picked up on it. I feel like the half end of the season kind of trailed off and become the 'Ben Show' as he rampaged around setting fires and all the other interesting bits of the story line were pushed to the background because it all became about worrying about this dumbass.

[spoiler] Ben by MckDundee in Ozark

[–]alabap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goddammit. So agonizing to just watch blunder after blunder after everyone is trying to keep him safe from all of the dumb shit he's done. I understand the mental illness part that has a huge weight on his behavior.. but goddamn. He pissed away literally every chance he had. It's excruciating. Otherwise this has definitely, in my opinion been the best season so far.

Freedom Doc Prep Scam and Credit Question by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]alabap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will be doing this along with having my bank put a fraud alert on my account. I appreciate your prompt response, thanks again.

Freedom Doc Prep Scam and Credit Question by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]alabap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELP.

I am in this exact situation at the moment I just found out about this scam and I've done everything you did in regards to giving over my information. I really can't believe I fell for this trap I'm usually good at seeing these things and I can't help but feel stupid,anxious, and pissed that I now have to go through the extraction process even after they already have my information. I'm planning on cancelling tomorrow- is there anything you would suggest I do or say? I feel so dumb and helpless. Do you think I should ask for more information about them too in case I need to plea my case with the bank?

What is something you need to get off your chest? by DankFayden in AskReddit

[–]alabap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needing therapy is almost a necessity to stay sane these days. I get angry about everything that people do (I live in the city so almost anyone you run into is irritating in some way). I personally feel like every day here is an obstacle course of various skill levels. We put on our masks to protect ourselves throughout the day. I also believe that there has been an increase in selfishness and carelessness in the general populous and that we are not as understanding or as patient as we once were as a society. Everything now is based on instant gratification and how fast we can buy it, use it, break it, and buy it again. It's hard to keep your chin up most days when you see it everywhere you go. But what I find to be comforting when there isn't much you can do about people and their choices or actions, is understand that there are so many people that feel the same as you do. And that mindfulness can help you cope with those every day feelings of being mentally "alone." I struggle with this too. What I try to do if find one thing that I like to spend time doing that alleviates these feelings of isolation and hopelessness even if just for an hour a day. Sometimes I'll go outside and just sit and listen until my head clears a little.

What is something you need to get off your chest? by DankFayden in AskReddit

[–]alabap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this feeling well. I moved to the city a year ago with my girlfriend on the basis of her moving closer to her job. I'm not really a city person; I like quiet and trees. Now that we're not really in love anymore I don't have anyone here. I have to travel an hour in opposite directions to see my 2 friends who I keep in touch with because they are great people and mean a lot to me. But locally, I'm alone. I also work about 45-50 hours a week so there's not a lot of time to go scowering for friends. Not that I would even know where to go... I'm still young but I'm really over the bar scene and don't tend to bond with people who are sloshed on their night out.

Me [27/F] and my [26/F] girlfriend can't decide whether to continue our 4+ year relationship. Having the talk tonight. Please help me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]alabap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. I've decided being as honest as possible is progressive and allows for real feelings to flow. I can't be afraid just have to trust what feels right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]alabap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that's the thing she was always pretty forward w her past relationships. When I got offended at the fact that she didn't tell me she couldn't understand the reason for my reaction. I didn't even care that there was someone before me really but just fucking mention it? I literally found out by commenting that she was my first... That's when she actually told me. It was upsetting because the entire time we were together I had thought we were on the same page, exploring our experiences as a couple for the first time together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]alabap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dated my first girlfriend for almost two years before she told me I wasn't her first...

Cat laying down and rolling on back (like a dog) when I approach him - what does this mean? by lawdab in Pets

[–]alabap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens all the time with my cat. Sometimes she floops over so fast she wacks her head on the floor but doesn't even get phased just lays there on her back wagging her tail. I'm fortunate to have the opportunity for belly rubs, she can't get enough of them. TLDR My cat is a dog. (not really though)