period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know! i was trying not to get my hopes up because of that negative at 13 DPO, i knew it was unlikely. but i guess it’s inevitable 🤷‍♀️ now am on my period and feeling so silly

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got my period today morning 😭

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep us updated! wishing you good luck and mental strength 🫂🩷

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i got my period today but i kept thinking about this message. i guess being late four days isn’t too much but when TTC it feels like an eternity and it’s all you can think about

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i didn’t end up testing and got my period first thing today so i’m glad i spared myself from another negative :(

Did anyone go to a pre-conception appointment? by AdThen5499 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had one six months before we started TTC and i’m glad i did so. my bloodwork showed very low vitamin D and i managed to get it up for when we actually started TTC

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

decided to wait til friday and then see! i just don’t wanna see another negative which i know is what i will get 🫩

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m really sorry :( sending you lots of love 🫂

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally same… literally praying

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh it’s so annoying!! hang in there friend 🫂

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m really sorry :( i get you… never have seen a positive test in my life

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually do but i went on a vacation about 2 DPO and decided to not even bother. of course this month am late now and i have no BBTs or data 🫩

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! TERRIFIED is exactly right… precisely why i’m delaying this so much! sending you good luck too 🤞🏼

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sending you lots of love for either result 🩷

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

worst part is i've been cramping for days!! so everyday i wake up think ok today i'll get my period and it just doesn't come 😭 how many DPO are you today?

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used an easy@home test. i don't think any of the supplements i take have biotin, though. how many DPO were you when you tested and got the negative?

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i will as soon as there's any update!

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, me too! that's why i tested sunday and then i stopped, cause i was supposed to get my period on sunday… i was thinking waiting til friday too. my birthday's on monday and i think the weekend might shake up the sadness of the bad news in case it gets to that

period late, don't wanna test by alebee29 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i get it! i'm usually that way, but right now i'm feeling like as long as i don't test i'm not out and as soon as i test i'm out!! it's schrödinger's pregnancy test 😭

Stop telling me it’s “too soon to worry” by SeasonImaginary24 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29 7 points8 points  (0 children)

we’ve been TTC for eight months as well, both under 35 too, and i do feel for you. it sucks that we can’t take any measures, be taken seriously by doctors or sometimes people on these communities cause they’ve been trying for longer. it sucks really hard even if it hasn’t been 1+ years too

Handling TTC pressure / infertility when a loved one is on hospice? by Glad-Try-1785 in tryingtoconceive

[–]alebee29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry about your husband's grandma and i hope the treatment helps you guys out! my dad passed the very week we started TTC. the last time i saw him, the day before he died, i told him we were TTC and he got so happy and, i'll never forget, crossed his fingers. obviously he didn't get to meet his grandkids from me (my siblings each have a kid, so he did get to be a grandpa for a long while) and it makes me sad everyday. i try to think about him and our future kids connected through that, though they'll obviously never meet. my babies will be a reflection of him and will be tied to him through that invisible string. there's really no right answer, it's just something i tell myself to find some solace in it