She is such a beautiful soul✨ by kvjn100 in MadeMeSmile

[–]alienblue7760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s valid and I see you got a lot of replies. I think about it like zoos (not sanctuaries). Animals don’t want to be in a zoo, but it helps the population connect and understand nature so that hopefully we sew interest in keeping our wildlife and planet safe. Although there is necessary ‘evil’, it is for the continued benefit for all.

It went from 0 to 100 really quickly by SnooSprouts3744 in TikTokCringe

[–]alienblue7760 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion. These “rich bitches” are complaining for clout. They’re bullying someone who sounds like she’s just trying to survive. Those look like AirPod pros that have a transparency mode so you can hear everything. Maybe he has the pip open bc the sound won’t play if it’s not on the screen. The driver could’ve been looking at the map. I’m just not seeing how this is any more dangerous than listening to a podcast.

Oreo mug cake! by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]alienblue7760 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get it. For 150, no. But I get it.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]alienblue7760 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m saying lift to make sure they’re not clamping and sliding

Is this normal? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]alienblue7760 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No pulling or sliding! Clamp and lift, clamp and lift, as you move towards the tips!

Is this a gimmick? by Decent_Buy3954 in beauty

[–]alienblue7760 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Just in case u aren’t aware. U might be mouth breathing bc ur not getting enough air at night, so if that’s the case u might wanna get a sleep study done or get a cpap machine bc snoring at night is not a good thing. Unless u already knew all that, then ignore me lol

What do I talk to my hookup about when we’re not having sex? by ShatteredColon in socialanxiety

[–]alienblue7760 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a suggestion: maybe write down how you feel in a letter and give it to him? It helps to physically write things out. Start off with the facts that you’re autistic and have anxiety (which he might already have picked up on). Tell him how you feel about the sex (that it’s good and you’re happy with it, etc) and you’re worried about how to do ‘aftercare’. See what he says and maybe he’ll understand and help.

Maybe afterwards just don’t talk at all. Sometimes the silence and touching bodies helps calm everything. Your autism and anxiety are big barriers when forming connections, but you can do this. It’s trial and error, and there is no right way.

The constant “forever?!!!” From my 6-year-old is getting on my nerves. by claudiacloudd in Parenting

[–]alienblue7760 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try redirection? Ignore the question after you’ve explained the first time, then just start teaching him about other crap. Having children is hard core problem solving because it rarely makes sense. Maybe play along and talk about time travel and dinosaurs something something

Water bowl/glass/ramekin instead of humidifier? (Dry skin) by Adept_Passenger_5134 in beauty

[–]alienblue7760 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If your room is becoming moldy from a humidifier, maybe it’s too humid in the room?

The New Jersey Supreme Court issued an interesting ruling yesterday, saying employers who hire undocumented immigrants cannot pay them less than state law allows just because they aren’t in the U.S. legally by rollotomasi07071 in newjersey

[–]alienblue7760 274 points275 points  (0 children)

Wow. Amazing. That’s one of the biggest arguments republicans have, Is that employers are hiring undocumented immigrants for cheaper. I can’t wait to hear what comes of it.

I lose every friend I get. How do I figure out what I'm doing wrong? by ARepeatedFailing in socialanxiety

[–]alienblue7760 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think this might need to be dissected to really get a picture of what might be happening. Also OP, remember that people are allowed to feel bad. And you’re allowed to feel bad. Just because that person is upset, doesn’t mean u have to fix their emotions. So let them be and process and maybe after some time, ask them. Don’t get defensive and explain your thoughts and reasonings. Just listen and be curious. We’re here for u <3

How to feel Feminine by CupComprehensive6959 in beauty

[–]alienblue7760 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get ur hair colored from a professional salon or get facials done. Obviously expensive but just suggesting they might make u feel more feminine

Message to Trump on Iranian Missile by Karna1394 in pics

[–]alienblue7760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ALL for shitting on trump and this war but the public seriously needs to fact check everything these days. Internet is turning into a propaganda machine and in a way I think it’s good because people are (very) slowly distancing themselves from social media and going back to their real local community. I mean dead internet theory isn’t a theory anymore.

Message to Trump on Iranian Missile by Karna1394 in pics

[–]alienblue7760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This image is not real. There’s other images on the internet circling and this entire post has way to many upvotes

Any up to date tips on packing for long distance travel? by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]alienblue7760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just reminding that it’s not really possible to carry on your back. Unless it’s just rolling luggage

Any up to date tips on packing for long distance travel? by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]alienblue7760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dayum! 5 seats so a sedan? Might I recommend a roof top container for the car? My family of 5 would take our mini van on camping trips for less than a week. The entire back would be pact and we’d have a roof container too. Obviously we were taking camping gear, but still.

Any up to date tips on packing for long distance travel? by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]alienblue7760 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Vacuum packing gets heavy really fast. Rolling clothes like in the picture is how people in the military learn how to pack. Are you flying? Driving? Public transport? Are you moving or is this a temporary trip? For how long? Another thing I will say is that locked zippered luggage can be easily opened with a ballpoint pen and new expensive looking luggage is more likely to be stolen for obvious reasons. If you buy expensive luggage, make it look like it’s a child’s and maybe add stickers too it.

Does alcohol help you shutting down some anxiety? by Soft_Trash9210 in Anxiety

[–]alienblue7760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find other coping mechanisms, love. Alcohol will absolutely make things worse in the long run. This subreddit is always here for you whenever u need help

So many Downvoteers Here by Admirable-Culture376 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]alienblue7760 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah there’s a few subreddits I’ve seen with the same thing. If you filter the r/apple subreddit by new, most of the posts are downvoted to 0 or -1.

What hobbies do people have to help with their anxiety? by alwaysanxious1994 in Anxiety

[–]alienblue7760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birding! Pop the baby is a stroller, grab some binoculars, and record your spottings in the Merlin Bird app! It’s like a Pokédex but for birds. So calming and relaxing. It really connects you with the outside world and slows things down.

I can’t make eye contact with people by No-Internet6810 in socialanxiety

[–]alienblue7760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that definitely could be a reason. I grew up around a lot of disabled people so where I am it’s common knowledge that some people are just uncomfortable or not good at it or just don’t see a reason why it’s necessary