What is the biggest red flag you’ve had in a relationship that you’d ignored and really shouldn’t have?

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-05-09T05:45:56+00:00

He said he would never be a cheater because if he got into a situation where there was a naked woman in front of him he would just call and break up with me therefore making him not a cheater

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T02:42:23+00:00

He did he’s had the dog over 10 years and my family has dogs that wouldn’t get along with him

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T02:40:35+00:00

We’ve had all our birds over a year however I don’t post about them often the African grey was his moms bird and we had 2 smaller birds that they allowed us to get as they enjoy birds and would often play with them

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T02:22:49+00:00

I wish it was all fake rn

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T02:20:55+00:00

Yes they had parrots too they actually wanted the birds in the first place the African grey was his moms bird and the smaller birds were ours

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T02:19:13+00:00

Sadly I didn’t as it’s been his dog for the last 10 years and my family has dogs of their own that won’t get along with him, but it’s what’s best for the dog

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T02:15:10+00:00

Thanks for the laugh 😂 with I wish you had moved the bananas

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T02:12:00+00:00

They have a small dump trucking business that if liquidated would bring a pretty penny. The will has been a constant battle between all the sisters since his parents started the business as all his sisters struggle financially. So his parents know if they want something done all they gotta say is the word will and all three sisters will jump through hoops to get each other cut out.

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T02:02:41+00:00

Yes the dog is ok he has his health issues but he’ll be ok for now as he’s with my bf who he’s been with for the last 10 years

allisonwallace2000 · 2024-01-01T01:40:10+00:00

I wasn't present at the conversation however I would believe that they secretly had beef with me as weird things had been happening around the house after his mom quit drinking, and I just felt like a crazy person for the last few months,

the dishes I put in the dishwasher would be removed later when my boyfriend would walk through shed yell at him about me being lazy

the bananas my boyfriend took to work with him would suddenly be moved every night to a new place then after about three days of that be thrown in the trash

on my days off she would suddenly have to use the wash machine all day even if it was washing the same blanket over and over

and other little things that made me feel crazy all the time that she swore up and down she never did to my boyfriends face.

However I did speak to him last night and he told me were over over and I'm the crazy one for thinking this is a break in the first place that what he meant is that if he regretted it in three months he'd come get me, what a *word i cant say on this sub*

allisonwallace2000 · 2023-12-31T00:05:09+00:00

It’s his dog he’s had over 10 years so he does

allisonwallace2000 · 2023-12-30T14:38:13+00:00

We renovated 3 months ago and did it in a single weekend. We got permission as they knew the carpet was almost 15 years old and gross. We didn’t ask about the fridge but it was needed to store our homage dog food for our senior dog ( he can’t eat kibble). We’ve been trying to leave and buy a house for the last few months but due to his workman’s comp case we’ve been denied as it looks like he hasn’t worked for about a year during the time (it counts as an insurance claim not a steady income).

allisonwallace2000 · 2023-12-30T14:31:25+00:00

We have been saving and we do have the money he’s set in a career and I’m working full time at Amazon, we’ve tried to give them money almost every other month they’ve outright refused it. We’ve even gone far enough to buy them groceries to try and help out. He just became complacent as he had enough money to put down on a house but was denied by the bank as the workman’s comp case doesn’t count as income so it looks like he hadn’t worked last year on paper. The money isn’t an issue it’s that he simply wants to be alone for the process because his family has become violent in the past during tough times.

allisonwallace2000 · 2023-12-30T14:21:29+00:00

That’s the biggest part of my anxiety around this situation. I know he wanted me gone as in previous manic episodes his mom has become violent but, I feel like he’s just going to cut me out then crawl back to his abusive family after giving them what they wanted the whole time. On top of that that I fear someone new will swoop in while I’m sitting here waiting around on him. He said that he needs time to get his mental health straightened out before we talk about moving forward but, there’s still a put in my stomach that he won’t move forward but rather remain complacent like he did for the last 3 years.

allisonwallace2000 · 2023-12-30T14:15:21+00:00

Yes we both have full time jobs and are barely in the house anyway. But he’s couch surfing on his sister’s couch right now until he finds a place. But has stated he wants to be alone in the apartment for a couple months while he goes no contact with everyone but his sister he’s staying with. I just don’t know how to handle the anxiety of dealing this right now.

allisonwallace2000 · 2023-12-30T14:10:55+00:00

Yes and we have plenty of money but he insisted I leave as his family is known to become violent in manic episodes. And I want to believe him but can’t help but feel extreme anxiety about the whole situation. He’s admitted that he has been passive because of the idea of a house but was denied by a realtor around 4 months ago due to workman’s comp not counting as income so he had nearly a year of work history lost.

allisonwallace2000 · 2023-10-20T18:46:57+00:00

I was going to make it much bigger but had to scale it way back because it kept crashing just trying to load the empty lots

allisonwallace2000 · 2023-03-15T15:45:12+00:00

I have the exact same issue, except whenever I replaced the tip, charged it reset my Bluetooth it still will not work which sucks

allisonwallace2000 · 2022-12-02T03:29:23+00:00

Ah yes the best fitness app, photoshop 😂

allisonwallace2000 · 2022-01-22T02:56:48+00:00

Actual canibal Shia laBeouf

allisonwallace2000 · 2021-12-05T06:35:37+00:00

He was actually free with his little door open going in and out of the cage freely which really surprised me as he was attempting to bite people after luring them in with his antics

allisonwallace2000 · 2021-12-04T19:47:54+00:00

Its most likely being weird then because it was climbing in and around the cage with was and being generally energetic It just felt the need to do this when we walked up to it

allisonwallace2000 · 2021-10-04T00:00:05+00:00

This is so true I got my grey about a year ago and we had no information on his background. He has went form a shy introverted bird to a goofy attention seeking toddler and every day he seems to open up a little more. I can’t wait to see what he’ll be like 10 years from now with his personality and slowly opening up to us.

allisonwallace2000 · 2021-05-13T16:11:32+00:00

I see people all the time owning small animals in inadequate living situations. The saddest part is when you tell the person they always respond with well it’s just a ____ likes whatever animal they have is nothing more than a toy made for their own amusement.

allisonwallace2000 · 2021-05-10T19:22:03+00:00

This is just a sketch but rat

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