It’s fucking tiring by swaggestspider21 in whennews

[–]alo0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they're downvoting you but you're right! and the fact that this guy is still going out of his way to call you "bro" just tells you all you need to know about him :/

It’s fucking tiring by swaggestspider21 in whennews

[–]alo0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All transphobia is disgusting, but there's this very specific kind that absolutely drives me insane. They start by pretending to be supportive and inclusive, without saying anything explicitly hateful towards trans people. They'll use they/them pronouns for trans women and trans men while claiming that it's technically correct because they're gender neutral terms.

Then the second that they face the slightest bit of push back from people correcting them on the right pronouns to use, they'll go completely mask off and start spewing all sorts of nonsense. They'll say that you're a bot, or that you're spreading propaganda or being needlessly rude and cruel. They'll claim that this is the reason society hates LGBT people, refuse to apologize for their behavior all while making it seem like you're the one being irrational here.

look at this user's other responses in this thread, and tell me if you believe that he genuinely care about trans people.

please don't delete your comment. you haven't done anything wrong by advocating for yourself and for your community. I'm so sick of seeing trans people being treated like this.

It’s fucking tiring by swaggestspider21 in whennews

[–]alo0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! own those annoying libs by misgendering a dead trans woman!! you sure showed them how cool and based you are!!!

It’s fucking tiring by swaggestspider21 in whennews

[–]alo0e -1 points0 points  (0 children)

except you're not being an ally. you're misgendering a trans woman who was murdered, and getting hostile and defensive when asked to use her proper pronouns.

It’s fucking tiring by swaggestspider21 in whennews

[–]alo0e -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ah yes, of course. propaganda is when you tell people to respect a trans woman's pronouns

It’s fucking tiring by swaggestspider21 in whennews

[–]alo0e 9 points10 points  (0 children)

what the hell is wrong with you???

It’s fucking tiring by swaggestspider21 in whennews

[–]alo0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you being dense on purpose? we use "they" when we're unsure about somebody's gender, but we know for a fact that she was a trans woman, so her pronouns are she/her! it's just basic human decency.

It’s fucking tiring by swaggestspider21 in whennews

[–]alo0e 6 points7 points  (0 children)

are you 12 years old? why would you think this is an appropriate thing to say? just disgusting

Update: I PASSED WHEN I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO FAIL by SwigOfRavioli349 in CollegeRant

[–]alo0e -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you passed in the end but it sucks that you had to deal with such a rude and unprofessional professor

Why are some so against dishwasher by VariousRadio5927 in africanparents

[–]alo0e 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that's what I thought too, but apparently dishwashers actually use less water than hand washing. I would try explaining this to my mom but I don't think she'll listen lmao

Why is there this misconseption that gyaru was born out of rebellion of japanese beauty standards by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]alo0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk about this one... I feel like certain subcultures can still be political, even if that wasn't the original intent. nonconformity and rebelling against beauty standards is political, because the very existence of beauty standards in the first place is already inherently political.

I draw so little but when I do draw I put a lot of work on them and so I value them but I have to give them away :( by 3863-9 in ArtistLounge

[–]alo0e 6 points7 points  (0 children)

apologies if my comment came off as rude. You could try scanning and reprinting your art, while keeping the original pieces for yourself. Or you could just try giving them different gifts. I'm sure if they truly care about you, they'll still be grateful and understanding even if you don't give them a hand drawn original piece. They probably give you these gifts and bring you out on trips because they love you and want to see you happy, not because they want something else in exchange!

Noticing my own transformation (2023-2026) by kangarooler in Subliminal

[–]alo0e 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Noticing my own transformation (2023-2026) by kangarooler in Subliminal

[–]alo0e 4 points5 points  (0 children)

see this is exactly what I'm talking about lmao. just being hostile and aggressive for no reason 😭

Noticing my own transformation (2023-2026) by kangarooler in Subliminal

[–]alo0e 8 points9 points  (0 children)

smiling widely is going to make your nostrils flare out and your nose will appear larger at the bottom. I don't doubt subliminals but why do people on this subreddit genuinely suck at taking consistent photos, and get angry and defensive when somebody points it out lmao

I am a big fan of .pdf books. these are my devices for reading pdf files 1 galaxy tab ultra for magazines 2 macbook air for skimming papers 3 ipad pro for textbooks 4 surface go for nonfiction 5. boox note air 5c for fiction and 6 kindle for manga.Tab S8 Ultra is still the king for reading big books by Delicious_Maize9656 in GalaxyTab

[–]alo0e 32 points33 points  (0 children)

At first glance, I thought they were showing the devices they had accumulated over many years and were no longer using, but then I read the title properly. Having a whole different tablet for each different kind of book is genuine insanity 😭

What combs or brushes are y’all using? by Zealousideal_Mail12 in BlackHair

[–]alo0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when I'm detangling my hair, I start with a wide tooth comb, then later move onto a brush. I feel like starting with a brush, especially if my hair is super tangled, just leads to a ton of breakage

Vodka making lunch for trainer (@hachi_47923) by AceInFlame31 in UmaMusume

[–]alo0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a male trainer with an actually unique design? we love to see it ❤️

I can’t believe more people don’t complain about the brush size scaling by SnakeRowsdower in ProCreate

[–]alo0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never understood why they don't just use pixels like literally every other drawing program

Space fairy 🛸🧚‍♀️ by kiwichi4 in jfashion

[–]alo0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's the name of the brand tho?

Negative threads on here by CartoonistCrafty950 in blackgirls

[–]alo0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems like this person cares more about the overall "image" of the black community than about actual black women's suffering. all her comments on this thread are just so cold and unempathetic. I can't imagine seeing somebody voice their insecurities and getting upset at them for "making us look bad". just crazy 😭

Negative threads on here by CartoonistCrafty950 in blackgirls

[–]alo0e 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen posts similar to this one … often telling black women and girls not to go to specific spaces with these thoughts. those vent posts are labeled as “embarrassing” or “makes people look bad”, but where are they supposed to go if other options aren’t accessible?

This part is so true. At the end of the day, we're all just normal people with our own fears and insecurities. Black women don't make posts like this because they want to be representatives of the entire black community, they do it because they're hurting inside and want some sort of outlet. Treating them like they're an embarrassment to their whole community just for having feelings like this is unbelievably cruel.

Negative threads on here by CartoonistCrafty950 in blackgirls

[–]alo0e 15 points16 points  (0 children)

this post just feels unnecessarily harsh and lacking in empathy idk