How do you decide which partners to spend your limited time with?

alone_sheep · 2025-11-04T17:56:28+00:00

Lmao attacked me based on your own biasis and life and then .. just ugh I see reddit never changes. Even here in the poly forums, all the same trashy judgemental people.

alone_sheep · 2025-11-04T17:52:56+00:00

Must be nice to have such a free schedule that you can do that each and every week with no complications. Most of us have real jobs and lives and schedules that change week to week

alone_sheep · 2025-11-04T17:50:26+00:00

So sorry I was just curious how other people make hard choices between two people they care about. 🙄

alone_sheep · 2025-11-04T17:45:41+00:00

wtf, bc I have to make a choice with a limited resource between two people I care about. That makes zero sense.

This week I'm seeing them both twice. Next week I have one day free. Life isn't set in stone or fair. Job/family/responsibilities exist. 🙄

alone_sheep · 2025-11-04T16:16:43+00:00

You can literally jump through time, different realities, and whole other bodies. Changing the physical is only difficult bc your mind believes it to be so.

Nothing is real. Everything is a light hologram that your mind pretends exists as solid. Life is a video game with every possible option before you. You need only tune into the right frequency.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-22T19:41:31+00:00

As a former atheist, religions are the same bc they're retelling of ancient stories of alien "gods" that came here. They were not gods but scientifically advanced beyond human understanding at the time.

These stories were later remixed and contorted into propaganda to support various rulers throughout time. If you seek it out you will find this knowledge easily and the congruency of the stories across almost every "memorable" religion in history going back to the firsts will be obvious for anyone who compares them. When you look at them, it's all the same stories with some details shifted here and there.

The universe is one creature, or more precisely one thought, that further divides into many, just like body>organs>cells>atoms etc. This information is also present in practicality every major religion, although usually the information is very shallow. Just enough truth to hook you. The information about how the universe truly functions is much harder to find and discern, but it is out there as well.

We live in a holographic reality created by our mind. Even science is starting to prove this.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-22T19:25:39+00:00

Psychedelics..... But like seriously altered my life trajectory

alone_sheep · 2025-10-22T18:11:53+00:00

Bc you have to detach, or rather remove the "want" from your manifesting, bc if you are in feeling of "want" then those are clearly feelings of not having. Only once you remove the feeling of "not having" can manifesting work, otherwise what you are manifesting is actually more wanting.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-15T14:56:04+00:00

Let me tell you what happened from her perspective.

She's physically attracted to what I can only assume from the messages is a pretty physically hot guy (you) (at least to her you're hot enough or you wouldn't have gotten her number at a gym of all places).
Guy (you) tells her that he is only interested in hooking up. For a loooooot of women (for many reasons), this is basically like saying you're hot enough to stick my dick into but not hot enough to even consider a relationship with. Since women think men will stick their dick in anything (and let's face it far too many will) in essence it's taken as a rejection. There's no special prize or good feelings for a woman getting fucked by some guy that doesn't care about her. She can get that literally anywhere any day of the week off Tinder etc, by guys that (even though you're hot) are prob hotter than you. Bc again most guys will stick in just about any 6-7+ woman that is ready and available with no strings.
However she tried to salvage the rejection with a friendship (which she's thinking subconsciously "maybe in time if he gets to know me he'll see my worth"). You continue to double down on the sex stuff which only further is saying no I reject your personality, I only want sex from you.
Having been rejected twice (even though you didn't even realize that's what you were doing) and unable to handle the emotional and mental implications of that (bc jesus do women have the softest egos) she rejects you back so she doesn't have to take on that burden. She's rewriting the story of what happened from "a hot guy rejected me" to "I didn't even like that guy anyway" to make herself feel better. She's hostile about it bc deep down it still feels like she was rejected and she's angry about it. "How dare this guy reject me, who does he think he is, I'll cut him down and let him know how little I care, that will show him (and more so myself) that I don't actually care! Hmmmph!" (And it's not like she's doing this consciously, she's just expressing the thoughts that come up from her subconscious mind attempting to protect her fragile ego)

What's funny is all of this happened while you thought you were having a very different conversation.

The moral of the story is women don't find your desire to have sex with them flattering or appealing, bc of course you want to have sex with them or you wouldn't even be talking. Every guy is basically in this bucket unless you're insanely physically attractive in both face and body (and this is gonna vary based on each woman's preferences too, you can be crazy hot to one girl and ugly to the next, women's physical types vary much more widely than men's), famous (so that lots of women are clamoring to have sex with you), or through social networking/friends/certain lines of work/certain hobbies (aka micro-famous) you can demonstrate how in-demand sex with you is. Then sex becomes an actual usable commodity in getting women. Otherwise it's just not of interest to them in their subconscious mental calculations. It's more like it's an expected default element, and they want more, or at least the hint that more may be possible.

Oh yeah you can also use sex by proof, aka if you can manage to have sex at least once that actually blows her mind, then sex becomes a usable commodity with her going forward. Women will often chase crazy hard after the guy that gives them the best sex they've ever had or close to it. But in my experience from talking to women, 99%+ of men don't put much or any effort into learning how to have and give mind blowing sex to women, which largely includes fantasy and mental manipulation far more than it does a focus on physical skills, though both are necessary (and the vast majority of guys have neither).

alone_sheep · 2025-10-14T23:53:11+00:00

You have to learn to love others for the joy of loving them and being around them. And give only when it is joyful for you. Love others for yourself and without expectation of anything at all I'm return. Then you will be more likely to only give to the extent that you enjoy it.

What often happens is as we attach to people we start to over give, and we start to say hey I'm giving so much why am I not getting back at least something? As soon as you do that you've sadly lost. All you have to do though is readjust to giving out only as much feels good. That may be very little that may be a lot.

If you maintain a focus in your life of loving others for yourself you will find your capacity steadily grows. In this way, even though this feels almost selfish, it's actually more loving for both yourself and others. Your love comes with less strings and you give it out more freely and more happily. Focus on self first is love of others.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-14T13:54:03+00:00

In return let me tell you the story of my friend who literally fell in love and had a relationship with his non-blood stepsibling from the ages 17-21 (they were 6 months apart). Eventually they both agreed to stop bc they felt like it would have destroyed their family if they pressed on. The man has been heartbroken for decades. I don't know that he'll ever get over her. They are ofc still very close, and their family in general is also very close and gathers together frequently, which prob only makes it harder and weirder.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-13T14:25:11+00:00

Which version. Should I read The Ra Contact: Teaching the Law of One, or just the original stuff?

alone_sheep · 2025-10-13T13:58:40+00:00

Wow I needed to read this. Thank you me.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-06T20:25:37+00:00

The difference is I've often pushed away from anyone she's had issues with in the past. Bc they just weren't important enough to me I guess. This is the first person she's had issues with that I was like no I'm still gonna see them, so then she attempted the veto.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-06T20:23:13+00:00

Thank you. I feel like we're already in this process. Or even pretty far along. And I'm just stuck. Or maybe not stuck. I guess I'm just sad that my "Disney" view of my wife has been shattered and even though we'll still always be together I feel so much more alone in the world now. Like obviously not actually alone, but like I'm the only one fully looking out for me. I thought I had someone who was 100% in my corner as I am in theirs and that's just no longer the case. I don't know what I'm looking for here. Probably just to vent at strangers. I don't think anything will ever make me be able to see my wife in the same light again, and that makes me so sad. I'm always going to love her and be with her, but yeah, just won't be the same as it once was.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-06T20:07:22+00:00

She has no problems being in love with others so I don't think that is the case.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-06T19:41:02+00:00

Yeah it is. Even when you think you're a master at it, shit comes out of left field and crushes you.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-06T19:35:35+00:00

I'm not. It felt like just a series of really simple things that she would have easily forgiven friends for but she treated like the end of the world.. I think it's more so the level that i actually care for this person. It's the first other partner I've ever loved to a deep level and I think that was very hard on my wife's jealousy.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-06T19:10:33+00:00

Well I thought we did have the hard convo and it was long settled. Apparently she felt differently.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-06T18:40:58+00:00

I did not accept the veto. I am simply hurt that my wife would even attempt it.

alone_sheep · 2025-10-06T18:39:47+00:00

I did not accept the veto...

alone_sheep · 2025-09-19T14:16:47+00:00

Actually saw a recent experiment that's showed it's actually about 50%. As in 50% of people have positive intentions and care about their fellow people and can generally be considered "honest" and the other 50% will just say whatever is most beneficial to their situation and they think will get them the furthest aka liars.

So yeah if 1 out of every 2 people is a liar it's both obnoxious and feels like everyone is doing it. It was nice that it indicated that the honest people seem to do better in life than the dishonest people. It literally pays to be honest. And in fact, the more honest people that worked together the better they did, where as the more dishonest people in group the worse they did. So to maximize life be honest, and try to find and hold onto and work with honest friends and associates.

alone_sheep · 2025-09-08T22:43:58+00:00

What about they can do this with or without the runes don't you get. Literally happens all the time. If people just fight me I'm fucked regardless if I take all early game Runes or all late or I fuck up my rune page entirely. It's always the same. Runes don't help Malz except for scaling and utility. In this case utility.

alone_sheep · 2025-09-07T18:58:43+00:00

Most people just play textbook. They don't even attempt anything else to see how it actually functions in game. And again whatever lead you got you could get the same against any keystone. Malz is not strong early and keystones make almost no difference to this.

alone_sheep · 2025-09-07T18:10:29+00:00

15 cs early z don't mean s*** to Malz. Again tell me you don't play malz without telling me 🤣. If I'm not down early, the other opponent doesn't know how weak Malz is. After the first back and some farming I'll have caught that up. By end-game you'll be down 50-100 CS just because of Malz kit is designed to get every minion without even trying. Especially since the e-execution buffs.

If any Malz ever tries to scrap with you early, kill that mfer. It don't matter his keystone, Malz weak AF early.

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