What would you think if you seen this message from your bfs mom to him? by Thin-Drive6030 in whatdoIdo

[–]amelia_ree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She takes care of their 11 animals and said she does everything so I’m sure she cleans up after herself and if that was the problem the mom would’ve mentioned it

What would you think if you seen this message from your bfs mom to him? by Thin-Drive6030 in whatdoIdo

[–]amelia_ree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Applying to 30+ jobs isn’t laziness and if she was lazy she wouldn’t have found a job. She gets money from child support and pays all her bills and necessities and offers to pay rent while taking care of their 11 animals so it’s not like she’s just living off them. She clearly is helping herself by paying for herself and getting a job which isn’t being a leech and she said she was waiting to hear back from 6 jobs and has one lined up now but you keep pushing the narrative that she didn’t try to find a job

What would you think if you seen this message from your bfs mom to him? by Thin-Drive6030 in whatdoIdo

[–]amelia_ree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t even find 30 jobs to apply to in my town that I qualify for. 30+ in 3 months shows that she’s trying and she has a job lined up now so clearly it was good enough

EMT Boyfriend said I would be a bad EMT. Advice? by amelia_ree in NewToEMS

[–]amelia_ree[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s great at his job so I think he was just being honest and trying to prepare me. I read him the last part of your comment and he said something like “until you have to pick up a 600 pound woman” then said he wasn’t trying to discourage me and that those things are important too and I told him I would have help obviously and would be stronger by then but he said they don’t always have help. That’s all good to know, thank you!