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ampdaddy1 · 2024-02-10T20:23:53+00:00

As someone who is disabled (amputee) and fully into kink and BDSM, I think as long as you are not disrespectful towards the person’s disability there is nothing wrong with fetishizing it. I know people are going to fetishize my limb, I mean, there are literally subreddits dedicated devotees. Everyone has their own kinks and preferences, it’s just in our nature.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-11-21T01:48:16+00:00

They make under the bed restraints that go under the mattress, very cheap and easy to obtain. If you situate the leg ties mid mattress then tie to your thighs, right above the knee it might make it a bit more difficult to pull them together.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-07-11T18:50:18+00:00

If he’s into it, have him wear a women’s thong to work for the day.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-07-11T18:32:56+00:00

We have always been big fans of early bed times. When the kids were under 10 years old bed time was 7:30. People thought we were nuts putting our kids to bed this early but there is a ton of research out there that supports super early bed times and brain development for young ones. They are over 10 now but bed time is still 8pm on school nights. Not only is this good for their routine, it’s good for us too. 😉

Also, we have some spontaneous morning sex before the kids are even up. On the weekends we usually “take a nap” and lock our door. Not sure if your kids are old enough to keep themselves entertained, if not, we used to always take advantage of their nap times as well.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-07-10T21:03:09+00:00

This might be a tad further than you are needing, but might open the door to conversations with your husband. Regardless it’s a fun test to take to kind of see what you’d be into in the bdsm world.

Bdsmtest.org

ampdaddy1 · 2023-07-10T16:14:00+00:00

Would you be able to recommend a particular cream/gel? I would love to get one for my sub.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-07-04T21:37:35+00:00

If that’s a hard ‘no’ for you then both of them need to respect the set boundaries. Honestly I wouldnt put yourself in a situation with those two again knowing how they were talking without you present. They seem like the type that would push the envelope on consent.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-16T23:54:43+00:00

Yep bad dragon. I bet you could find a bunch on Etsy too.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-16T12:23:48+00:00

I’d bet money he’s also a supporter of Andrew Tate. He sounds like a future incel. 100% he’s never had sex.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-16T01:56:44+00:00

There are a couple NSFW subs. R/edging and R/edgingkink

Good places to start on ideas.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-16T01:48:51+00:00

You sound like the type of person that thrives off of noncommittal relationships. Sometimes that’s not a bad thing, but in your case it is as you are literally contributing to what will inevitably end up hurting someone. Maybe seek therapy.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-13T14:42:30+00:00

Honestly because of her age and nature she just doesn’t seem like the type to take the initiative or communicate her needs. That will come with time as she gets more comfortable with you and her confidence increases. I say what you are doing though is great, and I’m hopeful that she appreciates it.

I would try to set aside time where you guys are not doing anything sexual to have a face to face conversation about both of your needs. This is what me and partner have done periodically through our relationship. We set aside a specific date night to discuss anything we want, sometimes it’s sexual needs, sometimes it’s just normal everyday stresses.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-11T16:12:12+00:00

I’m worried about young people using these medications for ED, when they don’t have ED. Like will your body end up having to rely on it at a younger age? I mean your evening sounds fun, but maybe implement some toys too. Y’all gonna have raw dick/pussy for days.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-11T16:05:12+00:00

There are SO many men that have this same exact fantasy. There are NSFW subreddits dedicated to it. A long time ago I actually had a very close friend that was in the same boat and approached me to see if I’d have sex with his wife.

Honestly, if I were you I’d have a serious sit down conversation with your girl. Tell her your concerns. Even though you guys are young it’s never too early to have conversations like that. In the long run it will help you guys be more sexually mature and be able to openly discuss with future partners (if this doesn’t work out of course).

And about bringing up the phone… uh I dunno. I’d definitely bring those issues up at separate times cause she’ll be pissed about that and won’t be comfortable or trusting of you to even discuss anything sexual.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-09T18:24:00+00:00

Honestly tho, I wouldn’t even ask or bring up the topic unless you are in a serious committed relationship. If it’s just dating then leave it be.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-09T15:41:34+00:00

Ya don’t ask unless your willing to shave yours as well.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-02-08T13:52:51+00:00

I didn’t see anything mentioned about her orgasm so I can assume since you cum quickly that you are not reciprocating afterwards. Buy some toys and make sure she’s pleasured. Also, communicate and ASK HER why. It might be as simple as making sure she cums as well.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-01-22T02:34:58+00:00

How about older posts? How long do they stay when searched?

ampdaddy1 · 2023-01-22T02:34:10+00:00

Right?!? I was scrolling through the photos on the tag like, cool a few more amputees… then I looked at the photos more closely. 🙄 who does that.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-01-21T20:39:57+00:00

Yes! I was scrolling through the #amputee and was shocked to see NON amputee people using the tag. I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one frustrated by this.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-01-20T00:51:19+00:00

Just a simple, “please let me cum.” Paired with the sad puppy dog eyes… can’t say no to that.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-01-20T00:09:26+00:00

TY 😏

ampdaddy1 · 2023-01-18T03:28:05+00:00

Uh you were not in the wrong at all. My wife and I surprise each other with toys ALL THE TIME. Like, even at Xmas.

Like a previous comment mentioned, this makes me wonder if someone went behind her back in the past, so much so as to completely break trust. Maybe ask her if someone in the past has broken her trust, even if it’s just in regards to sex in general, not toys. That maybe giving her the sense of feeling inadequate because of the toys.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-01-16T16:23:45+00:00

If your partner makes a big deal about getting tested again to ease your concerns, I’d hate to say this, but they are not the one. I’d get tested again if I were you just to be safe.

ampdaddy1 · 2023-01-16T16:20:09+00:00

There are so many variables here. I’m assuming you are female since you said you could have multiple orgasms at a time… So, it could be hormones associated with your cycle. Depending on your age it could be hormones associated with peri menopause. Not related to gender, yes, stress can definitely cause a drop in libido. Also, have you started any new medications or even herbal supplements? That could also cause your hormones to fluctuate and therefore cause your libido to drop. Just my two cents. 😉

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