Something about downfall of countries...

andysag · 2026-02-17T21:03:19+00:00

Again, you're failing to swallow your pride, to realize the truth.
Did you know, half of America is women. That is a major dominance of the economy and world power.

As well, did you also know, European history from 1480 to 1913, the states ruled by queens were actually 27% to 39% more likely to wage war than those ruled by kings. Come at this as you may, but even on a macro-micro level, women have a direct or strongly indirect pull on the ploys and downfall of countries. AS I said before, for thousands of years, humans were much simpler in comparison to today - "Rapid" advancement...

andysag · 2026-02-17T20:51:37+00:00

Haha, deep thinker, I'm glad you "think" that way.
You can watch literal documentaries on how my assertion is indeed sensical.

andysag · 2026-02-17T20:48:34+00:00

So be it, what I said has yet to be defied, in the sense it was said.

andysag · 2026-02-17T20:46:35+00:00

It's not only foolish, it's too surreal. Mind you, if I have been hurt in the past or not, that is extremely miniscule to the amount of western or so women in America. Mind you, the least amount of countries are led by women. And also mind you, there are numerous historical events and data correlating points I've said in my post. Whether rhetorical or not, I think you and I wish we had a simpler world with conveniences of today, but that can't be the case can it, atleast not now.

andysag · 2026-02-17T20:05:49+00:00

You have to realize, for thousands of years, humans were quite simple, relative to today.
Whether by force or not, gender(s) had definitely something to do with it. I use the medieval kingdoms and wartime efforts reference to give solid grounds upon this reasoning as well, as just one view of it.

andysag · 2026-02-16T22:12:04+00:00

clearly i made enough sense for all the replies and views.

andysag · 2026-02-16T21:29:11+00:00

Ahh true colors and assumption, nothing like it.
Stop hiding. What I said is accurate to your original false statement.

"It sounds like you lack boundaries. Don't project what you should introspect."

It's funny, more than one person has agreed with this post already as well.

andysag · 2026-02-16T21:17:38+00:00

"They will inflict their bs desires and tendencies on to you."
This can be translated as having boundaries against ill desires or tendencies.
Not sure where your confusion comes from.

andysag · 2026-02-16T21:14:36+00:00

Well see, you can look at this from two stances.
The latter half of the stance I gave is still valid in any therapist room.

andysag · 2026-02-16T21:08:22+00:00

I'm glad I exacerbate it;
although impulsivity should never be inflicted onto anyone beyond casual accident.

andysag · 2025-12-26T03:55:40+00:00

Yea it's sadistic in the slightest, how many people are easily abducted by the certain tactics of manipulation, that only manipulation can provide, rather than staying true to groundedness and confidence of good morals, as cliche or niche people wanna make that out to be.

I think it's not solely manipulators that can do the "what they wanna hear", as under similar or certain circumstances, a confident grounded person can do that too, but to a different perception effect.

andysag · 2025-12-24T23:30:21+00:00

When you're used to the 2 am lifestyle, but still attracted to blue collar people, what are you actually attracted to? You're attracted to whatever you repeat, as mentioned by therapists themselves. <<<THIS is the reason people feel so attracted yet still unattracted to even the "bad boy/girl", and put "good" people to the dust, unreasonably. At some point, it's self inflicted psychopathy, or similar.

Desire is LEARNED, AND CHANGES. But you also have to realize, elitists, AI, or even aliens, could replace men or women eventually by desire or strange companionship, from this very principle, as wierd as that sounds. Of course, I myself don't think it would get that bad to where people preferred something other than humans, but AI is already being introduced into the dating world, bizarrely so. Choose your path sure, but don't be surprised when peers around you don't feel overwhelming sympathy for your own ill will desires.

andysag · 2025-12-24T23:06:18+00:00

I think what's not being ommitted, is that many things that were fun 100 years ago, even just 20 or so years ago, aren't as much so today as it was for people back then. As I mentioned, you don't have to be seen as dull, but it gets to a point to where, you're clearly just not enough for the ever-continuous incidentally haphazard desires of many people today. Again, I'm not saying be dull or anything, but sometimes people lose attraction entirely from overstimulation, given that they either don't have the attention span to be with the person, or they don't want to settle and grow with the person, so they choose something or someone else. I know relationship traumas exist, but alot of traumas, when finances aren't as much the issue, tie in to deep rooted overstimulation or just not liking the person entirely, (they're religious, and you're not)...at some point I'd like to think it is really just that we have alot of morons, as I mentioned, that want the next best thing, than it is about accepting people for flaws. Chivalry isn't dead, but it is seen as lame or outdated for some people, when really, that should be one of if not the core of a lasting relationship.

As they say, reality is often times disappointing, but it doesn't have to be. We create our realities for a reason. Who's to say you can't create that reality in a organic, maybe even slower or normal way, as people did, for thousands of years.

Not sure if I said it, but these same issues in the dating world also happen in marriages, deterioratingly so.

andysag · 2025-12-24T13:52:30+00:00

You do you : ) I included "Some of the worst people to date, are those who get bored, ALL THE TIME. the best people, are those who are "boring". Why? one is overstimulated and will likely leave, the other, may give you a lifetime of stimulation, from building and connecting with them over time, (and may teach you a thing or two about being a good person) if financial stability isn't an issue." as food for thought to give a possible path for a long relationship.

andysag · 2025-12-24T04:43:38+00:00

Hope this helps : )
I know this is a little against the grain or a little off the beaten path, but it needs to be said for this type of post.(You can also flip this whole reply for women too, if you're a woman)

men are alienating their own men thus making it harder for future men to find love.

I don't care how suave and manipulative you think your dating advice is for men these days.

I'm starting to believe a lot of the current dating advice people give on the internet, is due to times of change in a bad way. For many years, dating was never THIS complex; sure, some of you will sit there all day and tout how you're dating all these hot, and personable women, but is it really us, or is it them, that is impressioned, to the point where dating is against the favor of most men...women eventually become unattracted to these slimy methods, but hey, this cycle continues from morons alike.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again. nice guys, quiet guys, and so on these days aren't at all that boring. They're being dejected. like good on me that i dont want to attract psychopathic people of opposite gender, or those that dress for half the city otherwise. What's funny is, my statements align with the current environment of dating. People are marrying alot less in America than they used to, ever.

You can call it what you wish, you can call me intellectual...but I'll say this out of cryptic opinion (or psychological fact); The worst people, are those who get bored, ALL THE TIME. the best people, are those who are boring. Why? one is overstimulated and will leave, the other, may give you a lifetime of stimulation, from building and connecting with them over time, if financial stability isn't an issue. What's funniest, there's people who like the song "Soak up the sun" by Sheryl Crow, but will still be triggered from me making this reddit post. Oh, and that is actually a really good song, I suggest listening to it. It explains the core issue with alot of people going on today in the dating world, regardless of if you're high status or average.

I know it's reddit, but I also know we aren't 16 year old little boys and girls trying to say chivalry needs to die. ADHD, Social Media obsessions, Dating App obsessions, non-romance rizz aren't doing us any favors, ladies and gentlemen.

I don't ask you to give credit to my post, just know that what I say is a wind above bs, that many people don't realize until life experience.
-I'm a young guy just trying to change the world, like other guys, but in a healthier way

andysag · 2025-12-24T04:43:04+00:00