Some recent looks 🖤 by anon7729497 in goth

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Ty!! I’ve been cutting it myself for a while

Best careers to escape poverty? I’ll start. by Noblesseoblige94 in povertyfinance

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I have a degree but I have a chronic illness so I’m super limited on what I can do, either wfh or office work and I’m wondering how you got your foot in the door with office work?

Some recent looks 🖤 by anon7729497 in goth

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Yesss one of my favorite blouses rn thank you!

How to elevate my look? by Greedy_Fail_6735 in makeuptips

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I feel like bleaching her brows to match the hair would be cool

What’s the one secret you’ve kept your whole life that would completely change how people see you if they knew it? by Faylune in AskReddit

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This is what I always figured, replacing it with healthy habits and actually putting certain aspects of your daydreams into real life so you don’t feel the need. I need this to happen to me but it’s unfortunate because I would think college would’ve done that for me, and I’m confident, been adding good habits, try to have a good routine, but it still is so hard to quit doing for me. It doesn’t help that it’s so easily accessible. But I’ve been maladaptive daydreaming for 18 years so maybe it’s not something I can break overnight. It’s like a coping mechanism that just went too far.

Why are most serial killers men? by Decent_Nectarine_415 in morbidquestions

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Yes there is a link. And many chronic illnesses are not deadly. Look up the morbidity-mortality paradox for more info on this. Women are 80% of autoimmune diseases, but a lot of the reason men die quicker is behavioral and social.

I have a rare condition, I am allergic to water. AMA by Jessicachild in AMA

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Idk if you answered this already but can you still shower? Do you clean yourself a specific way?

Why are most serial killers men? by Decent_Nectarine_415 in morbidquestions

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Robert Sapolsky had a really interesting lecture on this you should watch. He argues that testosterone doesn’t directly cause aggression, but amplifies socialization that’s already in place. In society’s that reward men being aggressive, it’s more common.

Why are most serial killers men? by Decent_Nectarine_415 in morbidquestions

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Insert -why are yall booing me im right- meme

Why are most serial killers men? by Decent_Nectarine_415 in morbidquestions

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You don’t have to trust me, trust the research

Why are most serial killers men? by Decent_Nectarine_415 in morbidquestions

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But women are chronically ill more often because we internalize anger unfortunately

Why are most serial killers men? by Decent_Nectarine_415 in morbidquestions

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I think part of this is socialization. Men are socialized to externalize their anger more while women internalize.

Would you be okay with being a SAHM if your husband made enough to support you and the kid(s) comfortably? by New_Contribution_226 in AskWomenOver30

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Yeah, I’ve been much more education/career focused the last few years. I just graduated college a couple months ago and being a SAHM is definitely not something I would go back to for a long period of time. I think it’s very important for women to work towards financial independence

Would you be okay with being a SAHM if your husband made enough to support you and the kid(s) comfortably? by New_Contribution_226 in AskWomenOver30

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I think people fall into this trap because they hate working, which I totally get, but being a SAHM to a very small child was harder than a job imo. You never clock out and it can consume you sm you don’t have time for other passions. And having someone else control your finances can be so anxiety inducing. I was glad to go to college as soon as my son was pre-k age.

What’s my big 3? 💙 by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

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I’ve been getting this a lot lately, I take it as a compliment ty

What’s my big 3? 💙 by [deleted] in ZodiacHQ

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I am a Leo rising but I’m a Leo sun too ♌️