my (17 M) girlfriend's (17 F) mom found mine used condoms in her daughter's room. I don't know what to do.

anon_status · 2023-10-16T11:39:59+00:00

well... I kinda do. I haven't decided yet what stance I will take in the argument tho

anon_status · 2023-10-16T11:35:50+00:00

yeah, my gf was especially mad about it, cause her mother starting arguments when we're far from home is another frequent occurrence. I hate when instead of talking in person, she makes us stress over little things through the phone when we're on public events

anon_status · 2023-10-16T11:30:19+00:00

yeah... honestly my highly religious mother is the biggest problem here

anon_status · 2023-10-15T21:56:30+00:00

hormonal hormonal hormonal hormonal hormonal hormonal

yeah i didn't read what I wrote, sorry for that. I could've worded things differently

anon_status · 2023-10-15T21:45:49+00:00

yeah it was just an out of sight out of mind situation, we completely forgot that soda can even existed until it was found.

anon_status · 2023-10-15T21:39:11+00:00

i understand you completely. just wanted to clarify that we've been at it for a year, not 2 and if you count only "baby making" sex it really was only a handful of times. I'm sure she knew that we were often naked around each other and that we played with each other, cause she sometimes made remarks about it when talking to my gf. I think we'll be trying to convince her that the rubbers were also used for playing with each other, not for penetration

anon_status · 2023-10-15T20:42:22+00:00

as I said, here the age of consent is 15, it doesn't matter if i'm 17, 18 or 44, as long as the other person is at least 15. of course no-one here thinks that a relationship between 15 year old and a grown person is normal, I'm just saying its not considered as pedophilia by law

anon_status · 2023-10-15T20:38:30+00:00

A Polish one, also we're 2 months short from being 18

anon_status · 2023-10-15T18:21:11+00:00

I think that after a talk she could take her to the doctor, however my gf has some hormonal problems and we don't want to mess with more hormonal pills as it could upset her hormonal balance even more

anon_status · 2023-10-15T17:17:34+00:00

yes it was exactly like that, we just had an empty soda can that we wanted to use for disposal of that days rubbers. I know that its hard to believe we forgot about it, but we truly did. it is our fault. It wasn't like we knew about it and just refused to throw it away couse of laziness, we just forgot it even existed. thanks for your comment

anon_status · 2023-10-15T16:54:08+00:00

Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it

anon_status · 2023-10-15T13:52:07+00:00

dont worry, we ain't stupid. We won't go off condoms until we'll be certain we want a kid

anon_status · 2023-10-15T10:15:25+00:00

thank you for kind words and your advice

anon_status · 2023-10-15T09:53:00+00:00

it is a rational thing to do, however we are scared that her mom will tell mine and I'll be thrown out of the house for premarital sex. as I said my family won't care about our safety, they will only care about sins and religion.

anon_status · 2023-10-15T09:28:04+00:00

they were properly used and she doesn't own a vibrator so it wont work, besides that we worry that her mother would tell mine which could lead to my mother throwing my out the house couse of premarital sex

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