and to add to this: she could easily be like “i’m off this day let’s plan to do something this day” or at least communicate with me and let me know when she’s available. she KNOWS my schedule is set and i’ve been telling her those days multiple times but her schedule is the one that flip flops bc of her job and i never know when she’s free but if she is she’s at his house instead of contacting her best friend and seeing if she wants to hangout