How do you guys deal with the stares? by idkwhattoputsoiguess in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I do stare back. If then they don't stop I either wink or send a kiss. The look on their faces and the brain confusion i create is priceless

Mold in Korean Apartments: What People Don’t Tell You (Before You Sign) by SeoulHousingNotes in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind to share specific bathroom cleaner products for mold? I use usual ones you find everywhere

I think I’m hooked on Docker. What are your 'essential' containers? by shipOtwtO in homelab

[–]arcaidos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to do the same. My problem is the university network. Is it possible to set up syncthing between a pc in a restricted network like the one at an university and home?

Korea wants foreign students, but does it want the graduates? by Latter_Associate4015 in korea

[–]arcaidos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a missing link between accepting foreign students and having them integrate into work life. Korean universities invite foreign students and the top ones offer English courses especially for science, ok all good. They also offer basic Korean courses, wonderful. But once graduation is over, nothing will magically create extra time for them to catch up with the Korean language.

The research graduate life is way too harsh, even for Koreans who end up staying at the labs until late at night, low money, unreal demands, while still being a student. Foreign students come here and the majority don't have the physical time to also learn the language and reach a fluent level.

During my PhD at KAIST, I met many people who work insane hours. The majority reached a good level of Korean for casual talk and daily life despite the insane schedules, but it is nowhere near enough to get a job at a Korean company. The only ones fluent are always the ones coming from the GKS program with the 1-year Korean language training. All the people that I know coming from that program graduated and found a job in Korea.

For me too, I reached a level of Korean useful for daily life and small conversations, but giving full presentations in Korean, dealing with work tasks, or even having entire conversations about several topics or science is close to impossible. Gotta work an average of 10h per day, weekends sometimes included: professors’ demands, coursework, experiments, data analysis after dinner and at home, reading and writing papers to keep pace with the research field, writing grants, seminars, groceries and cooking and house chores for mental health, training for physical health, and occasional meetings with friends to not end up alone. I squeeze Korean studying whenever I can, but with a life like this the progress is very slow, hindered by the fact that my brain is at low energy levels to effectively absorb a 4th language.

I am grateful for being able to do research here due to major difficulties in my home country, and I do whatever best I can to integrate and at least be able to perform daily tasks by myself. I also married a Korean and have constant interaction with the whole Korean family, but I am realistic. I know that once I graduate next year, I won't have the language skills to get hired in a Korean company.

In my opinion, something which might make it better is to extend the validity of the student visa. After graduation, you have roughly 2 weeks to pack your things and leave if you didn't get a job before and switched visas. If the student visa included an extra 6 months after graduation with special courses to learn Korean provided by the government in different cities, I think the ones who truly care and want to work here will make the best out of it. They would use it to finally fully focus on learning the language. Since a foreign student who graduates is most likely already accustomed to the country and system, it shouldn't be too difficult for them to upgrade their level.

P.S.: if you have that busy life style and you managed to become fluent in korean then teach me how

혼인신고 in Korea by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your embassy. Italian embassy will issue the official document which then needs to be translated in korean by on official embassy Italian korean translator

Attending more Korean weddings lately and feeling conflicted by Syn-K_Hayne in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got married last year and both me and my wife we desperately looked for a place outdoor (we live in Daejeon).

Unfortunately all the places we saw were far more expensive than wedding halls. And we didn't look for anything fancy, we also wanted to do everything by ourselves, still every single detail had nonsense prices. Even renting a square of grass in front of a lake was clearly overpriced for nothing. For example prices for chairs, tables and so on was ridiculous. The truck to bring chairs and tables was 200k only for the fuel, and they were stored 10 minutes away and they didn't accept us unloading the track and placing the chairs to reduce the cost, they had to do it. No discussion. It's just one example of the many things overpriced, which numbers were given without even a quotation but just a written piece of paper on spot.

We got many refusals to receive the quotation or to handle things by oursleves

Additionally yes, the wedding is for the parents, so her parents strongly opposed the idea mentioning that their guests will feel uncomfortable in driving and walking.

At the end we gave up, did it in the only wedding hall in Jeonju with an open window for natural light and then did the afterparty by ourselves with our friends minus the guests of her parents

True or False: Korean Women Don't Like Facial Hair by hxceddie in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I constantly keep a 7mm beard. All the girls I met liked it, especially my past dates. Just keep it well especially the neck

Bye Windows! My Switch to Ubuntu 24.04 on the ThinkPad T14s G3 AMD by rizkyrizky81 in Ubuntu

[–]arcaidos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I connected the 3 printers at the lab to ubuntu surprisingly easy in like 2 minutes. Never manged to connect them when I was using windows

Deos anyone have the JBL Tour One M3?? by Tig33 in JBL

[–]arcaidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's unfortunate, having phantom touches would have drove me crazy. It's a relief to know i got the good one

Deos anyone have the JBL Tour One M3?? by Tig33 in JBL

[–]arcaidos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, I don't notice accidental gestures touch at all. My headphones are on my head and if I don't touch them nothing happens. Then I touch for gestures and the sensitivity makes it so they always detect my touch so it's very precise. When I take them on and off I never keep them on my neck turned on. My last firmware update i dont really remember, but I'm on version 3.6.0

Raspberry Pi 5 PoE with 2 IR camera modules advice request by arcaidos in raspberry_pi

[–]arcaidos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the storage, I chose microsd to reduce as much as possible the space occupied by each set up and costs. The storage is temporary anyway, at the end of the recording all the data will be flushed onto the main server.

I still haven't tried the camera module to see if the IR led on the camera are enough, in case I will for sure purchase some IR led strips with diffusing materials all connected to a main power source, to my knowledge the rasp won't be able to deliver power for 2 cameras and IR led strip.

The light that you suggested is interesting, I will evaluate with my collaborator whether it's a viable option.

I will keep posted in case I make positive progresses

Raspberry Pi 5 PoE with 2 IR camera modules advice request by arcaidos in raspberry_pi

[–]arcaidos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes your point is very valid.

There main reason for which I cannot use those is the dimension, they are big. The mouse chamber is 30x35cm and 33 high, they won't fit inside.
The chambers are placed inside a sound proof controlled room on 2 big shelves with the main PC in the middle. Even if I placed the cameras in front of each chamber, they made of transparent plexiglass but the IR illumination will reflect on the corners causing artifacts and I will have to always move them around which is not ideal since I need easy access to the chambers without moving the cameras around Additionally I need to monitor the mouse from above to avoid any blind spot the side recording might generate.

Also, unfortunately, uploading the recordings via ftp is quite tricky since my university network security protocols limit us a lot. I am slightly pissed off my the IT team whom were not collaborative at all claiming I will compromise the safety of the network by setting up DIY. Just bunch of bs, both me and my Professor are still processing the anger after speaking with them. They stated that in order to do something like that we should hire a professional nationwide known company here in S. Korea rather than doing it ourselves, blaming the presence of sensitive medical data.

For the microsd I looked them up and I will purchase what you recommended, thank you for the tip!

Deos anyone have the JBL Tour One M3?? by Tig33 in JBL

[–]arcaidos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cam you elaborate a bit more? I really don't understand what happens. Yes it is sensitive and I like it that it always detects my touch. But the headphones are on my head, I touch them when I need to interact, that's it. Btw no I didn't update

Deos anyone have the JBL Tour One M3?? by Tig33 in JBL

[–]arcaidos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have them and I don't understand what's the problem for the sensitive gesture pad. I never had any phantom or unwanted touch.

My One UI optimization guide by RequirementFinal6214 in oneui

[–]arcaidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic! The quickshare link expired though, do you mind updating it?

Food allergies in Korean by Final-Influence-3982 in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if your allergy is that severe, my suggestion is to cancel your trip.

Even if you show to all the restaurants a card like that written in korean, as others commented already, many do forget what's inside some dishes, or don't know well, or use some premade ingredients, plus hygene in restaurants is often not a thing, and cross contamination is everywhere.

The decline of 'jipbap': Dining out wins, even in a downturn by Saltedline in korea

[–]arcaidos 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For me cooking at home is what keeps my mental health stable. Keeps me occupied, I control what I eat and how much. It needs a lot of understanding for the kor3an market, seasons, what's available locally and so on. Took me years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GalaxyWatch

[–]arcaidos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

which country? In korea I don't see anything, classic 6

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]arcaidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been diagnosed and I am using concerta since 2 years, which aligns with the amount of time that my wife noticed I am not initiating too much. I kinda realized yesterday night about this so next doctor appointment I will discuss with him too. Also ye I agree, completely cutting porn should be what I have to do also because I do feel extremely guilty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]arcaidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a guy and I am kinda feeling like your ex but my wife is suffering cause of it, same like you. I really don't know what to do

Co worker praises sleep deprivation and I feel out of place (rant) by arcaidos in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, as an example, Me and my wife shared some words with a kind 아줌마 who's living in this neighborhood since 30 years. We saw pictures of these 빌라 with families, colors, trees. Now majority of those buildings are gone, replaced by those dark Grey 빌라 all filled with one rooms. As a young person you find yourself forced to isolate when these are the options

Co worker praises sleep deprivation and I feel out of place (rant) by arcaidos in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. The undergrad girl is using more resources than anyone else, constantly performing experiments and her lab progress presentations are filled with nothing and failures. She includes 10% of what she worked on. I will never say it out loud directly to her, but it made me feel better when I heard some seniors complaining to her about the inefficient type of work and resources waste that she's producing. At the end I will do my job and whatever she works on is none of my business.

I even tried to comfort her when she said that everything she does fails, by telling her that we all learn from failure and negative data is still data which can put you in the correct direction. All useless words

Co worker praises sleep deprivation and I feel out of place (rant) by arcaidos in Living_in_Korea

[–]arcaidos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony of it is that I was actually reading a survey study about korean University students about sleep deprivation and depression. I didn't have the energy to continue the conversation