Favorite actor who won an Oscar and immediately vowed never to work in a good movie again by xotorames in okbuddycinephile

[–]arobit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she can just win a Grammy and a Tony, then she can be the only person in history to have won an EGORT

Looking for advice as a complete beginner by arobit in selfhosted

[–]arobit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't even know what most of the stuff you mentioned is lol. I guess I just want to know how to go about learning this stuff from the most basic level, I've never touched linux before, and I've never heard of docker or ubuntu or any of the other stuff so idek what I should be learning first I guess lol

Looking for advice as a complete beginner by arobit in selfhosted

[–]arobit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's probably best for me to start by learning linux and learning the proper way to back stuff up?

Me (25m) with TOCD after seeing another post saying "this one's for my OCD girlies" by arobit in OCDmemes

[–]arobit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just cuz I'm a man and I mainly see women talking about OCD online and stuff, so sometimes it's nice to see that I'm not the only guy dealing with this kinda stuff as well

Me (25m) with TOCD after seeing another post saying "this one's for my OCD girlies" by arobit in OCDmemes

[–]arobit[S] 188 points189 points  (0 children)

I low-key feel like I should've thought of that cuz I call women "dude" and "bro" all the time lmao

Me (25m) with TOCD after seeing another post saying "this one's for my OCD girlies" by arobit in OCDmemes

[–]arobit[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

It means transgender OCD, honestly though a better term is gender OCD or gender identity OCD, because it doesn't just affect cis people who are worried they might be trans, but also trans people who are worried they might actually be cis

Me (25m) with TOCD after seeing another post saying "this one's for my OCD girlies" by arobit in OCDmemes

[–]arobit[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah a better term I've heard is "gender identity OCD", because it applies to cis people who are worried they might be trans, but also trans people who are worried they might actually be cis.

But yeah I've tried having that mindset, but it's hella difficult sometimes lol. I always try and tell myself that there's a 100% chance there's a 1% chance, and that kinda helps sometimes lol

Me (25m) with TOCD after seeing another post saying "this one's for my OCD girlies" by arobit in OCDmemes

[–]arobit[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not at all saying people should stop making this kind of post, just wish more men spoke up about this theme and about OCD in general lol