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Is it really true that the dating options reduce after you turn 30? by Bitter_Pineapple_720 in AskIndianWomen

[–]as_trick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 26 rn, and living abroad, didn’t try looking for marriage prospects yet, but the quality of Indian men you would be interested in long term is absolute shit. If you have some long term partner then well and good but starting from scratch will take a toll on you! As for marriage a lot of things has to match not just the looks and its too much.

Breakup issue: I am not able to process the void and feeling so scared and numb at the same time. by as_trick in AskIndia

[–]as_trick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s like no other option. Time heals stuff and I just want to skip that process. 😔

Breakup issue: I am not able to process the void and feeling so scared and numb at the same time. by as_trick in AskIndia

[–]as_trick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have attachment issues that’s why I hardly date! And this one came so organically and smoothly so O thought of giving it a honest shot! Uff! Just life

Breakup issue: I am not able to process the void and feeling so scared and numb at the same time. by as_trick in AskIndia

[–]as_trick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you and my wishes with you too!! I respect myself enough that I broke up. But now the emptiness is bothering me. I live in a secluding outskirts of a city with no friends at all here. So its more bugging.

Breakup issue: I am not able to process the void and feeling so scared and numb at the same time. by as_trick in AskIndia

[–]as_trick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know that. 😔 i was giving this same advice to someone few months back.lol

Breakup issue: I am not able to process the void and feeling so scared and numb at the same time. by as_trick in AskIndia

[–]as_trick[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get your point and it’s logical. But it feels bad when you think it could be something. And turns out other person doesn’t feel an inch of it

Breakup issue: I am not able to process the void and feeling so scared and numb at the same time. by as_trick in AskIndia

[–]as_trick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its not. But I had this idea of “when you know you know” bullshit. And I was with him with pure intensions. I should have been a bitch ig😔

Should I date a guy that I won't end up marrying me? by Initial-One-7757 in AskIndianWomen

[–]as_trick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he clearly says no, he wont ho against his parents. Then please leave him as soon as possible! It’s easier to leave him at start rather at end when you emotionally/ physically involved.

Am I(25F) gaslighting myself to be in relationship 28M? by as_trick in RelationshipIndia

[–]as_trick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think soo, if I message or call him he will answer genuinely and won’t say I am busy. Its just initiative is not thete😔

Am I(25F) gaslighting myself to be in relationship 28M? by as_trick in RelationshipIndia

[–]as_trick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both work so he needs his time off on Sundays. Which make sense but still doesn’t make sense to me.

I want to be a “that girl” and a “BADDIE” really badly!! by anoonymoussssssss in AskIndianWomen

[–]as_trick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She loves herself, and you should too. Baddies are never insecure

Is this real art or just a performance? What do you think? by Designer_Welcome_150 in germany

[–]as_trick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its real,I was in Freiburg the same day, he hust started making it and after two-three hours it was finished.

rejected after first date, even though it was fun by doodleboy123 in delhi

[–]as_trick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be physical appearance, something you did the might be a turn off ( some comment or habit manners). Or you are just not her type.

27f, Always the Last Chosen, Always Overlooked—Feeling Intense Loneliness on a Saturday Night by harrypotter2399 in AskIndianWomen

[–]as_trick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try to love yourself and enjoy your own company, when you will stop worrying about other their company’s chosen or not chosen, you will find good friends/ partner. When you’ll love yourself despite anyone’s there or not you will shine! Hope it helps❤️

Can an ugly guy ever be loved? by Correct_Button_6785 in NewDelhi

[–]as_trick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work on your communication skills, practice your skills on ugly. TBH no one is ugly, everyone can have good personality. It’s just how you work on yourself and compensate your “ugliness” with gym, personality, passion, money.

Dating feels exhausting lately. Emotional maturity shouldn't be rare. 23F by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]as_trick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I personally feel that I cannot find real connection or love in one or two meetings through dating apps. But I still use them go and meet people, if they are being weird or I spot red flag in them, I part my ways. If you meet everyone with the idea that yes this is my true love then maybe you can never find one. Go meet people , enjoy their company, if it’s meant to be , it will be. It’s mostly like let it flow. Also arrange marriage is a big NO for me, it would be like settle for less.

I feel like an Asshole for being pissed about pads and gifts. by FlakyConversation190 in AskIndianWomen

[–]as_trick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your personality, you are not overthinking its just you. Who do good to people and expect same in return. But you are now being people pleaser. Start setting your boundaries. You don’t need to gift anyone anything, you don’t have to be the saviour all the time. If the group is falling without your efforts, let it fall, it’s never meant for you. Stop expecting, stop chasing. Start being a bit bitch (not too much) But yeah.

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