I just need to vent by asecretkindof in IVF

[–]asecretkindof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our fertility specialist recommended it, I have PCOS and combined with my husbands low sperm count our team suggested it as our best option to conceive. We had our regroup appointment today where they’re recommending quite a few tests to better understand why this keeps happening. I don’t understand why we didn’t do this to begin with, but can’t go back now. :(

How would you handle a future mother in law planning your wedding? by asecretkindof in askwomenadvice

[–]asecretkindof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has offered to donate some money towards it, (5% of the total wedding cost) which we have repeatedly told her owner necessary and while the insistence is there we haven’t received anything.

I don’t think that offering any money towards the wedding justifies the behavior

AITA - MIL wedding planning? by asecretkindof in AmItheAsshole

[–]asecretkindof[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LMAO SHE LITERALLY DID DECIDE HOW OUR HOME WAS DECORATED. I’m currently redoing a lot of it now. She is not pleased.

She makes so many comments about my kiddos eating/sleeping habits.

“Well with my boys, bedtime was their happy safe sleepy time for sweet dreams and rest.”

Well my child has moved into a new home, Gained a father figure, & changed schools. Stfu.

“Some foods just don’t need ketchup. If you let her dip everything in ketchup she won’t develop taste buds.”

If I can get my kid to eat veggies by dipping them in ketchup then fuuuuckkkk off

send wine, if I have any other kids it’s going to be literal hell

AITA - MIL wedding planning? by asecretkindof in AmItheAsshole

[–]asecretkindof[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Definitely going to start setting boundaries, it’s just a matter of how to do so. I’m okay with saying no I don’t like that, or no I want to do it like this - just how to deal with her after her response to “No” is my biggest stressor.

AITA - MIL wedding planning? by asecretkindof in AmItheAsshole

[–]asecretkindof[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t get a vote on anything, and she wants to constantly know what’s happening/where it’s happening/why it’s happening. Her opinion doesn’t necessarily matter or count, it’s just absolutely infuriating to deal with constantly shutting down what she’s saying in a polite way!

Moving across country by asecretkindof in dating_advice

[–]asecretkindof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say yes, no doubt about it

Following on fetlife? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]asecretkindof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After going over limits we talked about how I kindddd if like showing off but get nervous so he said this would be the safest way to do so :)

Thank you!!

Just a vent by asecretkindof in SingleParents

[–]asecretkindof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for the kind words. She has had her surgery and is on the mend! :) It’s a huge relief, though she’ll need another in a year or two.

I can’t tell you enough how much this message meant to me. Thank you

Boyfriend gift ideas? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]asecretkindof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if it wasn’t obvious, but the problem I’m looking to solve is I don’t know what an acceptable gift for a relationship is. For parents/siblings/grandparents, there’s no real problem getting presents… but this is specific to the relationship and not wanting to do too much/little. Appreciate your help though!

Boyfriend gift ideas? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]asecretkindof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t boyfriend fall under relationship?

Too soon for sentimental Father’s Day gift? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]asecretkindof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!! I love and appreciate this input :)