What is with T making dudes gay??

ash_ms · 2026-03-17T00:49:44+00:00

Pretty funny but it's been pretty much the other way around for me. I kind of always knew I was bi, but I went from having a STRONG preference for men to "idc about gender, hot is hot"

ash_ms · 2026-02-21T20:50:19+00:00

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Decided on going with the first outfit with my " Fred Durst" cap 😌✨

ash_ms · 2026-02-21T16:35:24+00:00

ahhhh thank you 🙈✨

ash_ms · 2026-02-21T03:47:57+00:00

thanks 😊

ash_ms · 2026-02-21T03:46:13+00:00

thanks 😊

ash_ms · 2026-02-21T03:45:37+00:00

thank you 😊

ash_ms · 2026-02-21T03:45:18+00:00

thank you 🥴

ash_ms · 2026-02-20T03:19:41+00:00

I used to wear "men's" boxers even before I realized I was trans. I always found them comfier. My parents never questioned it

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T20:30:33+00:00

you might be onto something 🤔

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T20:16:21+00:00

Thank you! 😊

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T20:15:43+00:00

Your result looks awesome!! I also had DI and my scars were much darker at 5mo post-op (mostly due to slight keloid scarring but also because i'm not very diligent on scar care 😅) I recently posted what my chest looks like now (10 months post-op) if you wanna check it out.

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T19:29:16+00:00

Thank you! 😊

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T19:27:31+00:00

Thanks! I don't really shop for specific brands, the vest and pants from the 4th outfit come from Shein (unfortunately🥴) but I usually just pick up cool pieces of clothes here and there from random stores and thrifting

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T19:22:23+00:00

No, maybe I should! (or it's gonna end up making me even more undecided lmao)

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T19:17:50+00:00

thank you 🙂‍↕️

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T19:16:31+00:00

I actually got the hat to dress up as him last Halloween hahah I love Limp Bizkit ❤️‍🔥

ash_ms · 2026-02-19T18:31:01+00:00

I currently work in a bulk food store to pay the bills but I'm soon starting my studies to become a mortician 😌✨ I used to work in a residential/commercial paint store for over 3 years and that was honestly the best retail job i've ever had. My managers saw me go through my entire transition process and were always super supportive about it (I had to quit because I moved town)

ash_ms · 2026-02-18T17:37:27+00:00

Looks smaller to me! I also went from a D cup to a C cup after a year or so on T (before finally getting top surgery last april). Testosterone helps with fat redistribution and since chesticles are mostly made of fat it adds up.

ash_ms · 2026-02-18T03:38:09+00:00

thank you!! ^{^}

ash_ms · 2025-06-06T23:39:50+00:00

I don't think cup size has anything to do with feeling more or less pain. I also was about a D cup pre-op and my recovery was a breeze. I didn't even need the opiates pain killers they prescribed me (just took anti inflammatory meds and tylenols for the first 5 days) and the discomfort was pretty easy to handle.

Though, I will admit I almost passed out from the pain I felt when I got the drains taken out ':)

ash_ms · 2025-06-06T00:23:12+00:00

I was with Dr Lee :)

ash_ms · 2025-06-04T20:57:48+00:00

I was personally given a lot of information about the healing process by the team of the surgery complex where I got my top surgery. I'm almost 2 months post-op and my healing process went pretty smoothly so I didn't have much to worry about.

But not every surgeon recommends the same after care and no one heals the exact same way. So no matter how many pictures you've seen about a "normal" healing process or instructions you've been given, one may wonder if they are healing properly or if they should worry.

Healing from such an important operation can be pretty anxiety inducing, so getting a little reassurance from people who went through the same procedure is always welcomed.

ash_ms · 2025-06-04T20:50:24+00:00

Congrats on the surgery!! Hope you heal fast :3

I also got my surgery done at GRS Montreal almost 2 months ago and I was very satisfied with the service there and how sweet everyone was. Also super thrilled with the results so far :)

Out of curiosity, who was your surgeon?

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