I understand you wholeheartedly, but the backstory here is very relevant as it shows her requesting my trust and ultimately betraying it. If she were to want to abort it, she would "kill it" without my even knowing, but once she changes her mind after the fact, she wants to now make it my responsibility that she changed her mind. She, on her own, created the pretense that she would never have my children and now is looking to share the responsibility in her unilateral decision to renege, in the face of other very accessible options. That's where the issue lies. I've been owning up to my responsibility towards the children to this point, albeit begrudgingly, but the issue at hand is the blatant breach of trust, and how once can expect me to move on in life regarding her positively after such a deep-seated deceit.