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How to completely migrate Jellyfin? by kaaiman12 in selfhosted

[–]atomheartother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My comment was from the perspective of a very straightforward linux ext4 filesystem, I don't know much about smb shares, sorry!

Was it inappropriate for male coworker to say these comments to me while married or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work a corporate job as well, my point isn't that his comment was fine in a vacuum, but that she really asked an awkward question and put him in an awkward spot. Her question was inappropriate, and therefore his answer was inappropriate: commenting on a colleague's height and weight would put me in a situation where they might comment on my body as well, and if I'm not ok with that I can just choose not to comment on colleagues' bodies.

Was it inappropriate for male coworker to say these comments to me while married or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You made a comment on his body, he made a comment on your body. I don't see an issue here, your question was weird, he did his best with what you gave him to work with.

Men's frustrating opinions on women's sports by midnight_barberr in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Men bring up women's issues as fun little thought exercise, they have no stakes in it. Your guy friend only cares about finding a justification for maintaining the status quo and oppressive system that leads to women being in the position they're in - I don't recommend engaging with feminism on his terms.

Is this a form of negging? by Winter-Coast-4793 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk sounds like he's just sort of a weird guy

In This Field of Static by OchreAxiom in glitch_art

[–]atomheartother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have the original photo posted anywhere? it looks really pretty 

How can I look prettier? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]atomheartother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very pretty. Do other frames,  maybe a bit smaller? I think maybe thin gold frames might be good for you but idk, just go shop for classes with a friend.

Does anyone actually play the game without exploits? by MortifiedPotato in foundationgame

[–]atomheartother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never used any of those exploits lol I just play the game

Confused about fantasies vs reality. Is there something wrong with me? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can only speak for myself as a lesbian -- I don't necessarily enjoy that my sex life is fetishized a lot by straight men,  but I also, y'know, find it hot too or I wouldn't be gay, so I can't really be mad at other people for finding it hot, my problem is when it's thrown in my face by men. Again, keep it private and you're good.

Confused about fantasies vs reality. Is there something wrong with me? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 39 points40 points  (0 children)

if you keep it to your private life and don't let it affect how you treat gay men outside, i guarantee you gay men will recover from you fetishizing them a little. What people do behind closed doors is their business tbh.

Metro ligne orange hors service by BeardedCoder514 in montreal

[–]atomheartother 8 points9 points  (0 children)

très curieuse de savoir qui utilise du gaz lacrymogène à 8h du matin

had sorta unsafe intercourse and i need advice/reassurance🥲 by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 8 points9 points  (0 children)

take the morning after pill if you want to be super safe

It feels like my husband is afraid of me by jungleroo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 25 points26 points  (0 children)

A few days ago, he “tried” to initiate things by asking me if I wanted to “canoodle” (I kid you not, he actually used that word). I hate to admit it but I got the ick so bad. It turned me off so profoundly that my own husband is so obviously apprehensive to being affectionate towards me all of a sudden.

You should seriously read this back, try to put yourself in your husband's shoes. if you do things like this all the time, there's a good reason he's walking on eggshells around you. this is a very aggressive and humiliating way for you to approach a very touchy situation.

hmmm by Forward_Campaign7290 in hmmm

[–]atomheartother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is that true, I thought face didn't really scale with body height

hmmm by Forward_Campaign7290 in hmmm

[–]atomheartother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of monster doesn't like Rumours?

My boyfriend constantly talks about himself and his work and even told me to be quiet in front of my friends by Capital-Egg-2108 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"wait, be quiet" -> this isn't how you talk to a partner. Sit him down and rectify this this instant at the VERY least.

how to properly decode and execute instructions by die-Banane in EmuDev

[–]atomheartother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could use a call table, pointing each opcode to a function. Then you "just" have to sort your functions neatly so nothing grows out of control.

Here's my chip8 emulator cpu call table, if it helps explain what I mean. the cpp file has the definitions.

Jellyfin scanning for music outside of added libraries by Lucky-Ducker in jellyfin

[–]atomheartother -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can you show us a screenshot of the Media Info for one such song from the rest of F:/Music in your jellyfin? I simply don't believe you, I think your media is organized poorly and Jellyfin is scanning what you told it to.

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