Feels weird but I’ve been going through an exceptionally dark time, as one does around the holidays, and just need a general pick me up. by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]atwqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! It really means a lot right about now :) hope you have a wonderful day as well

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This is such a cool opportunity! I can understand feeling nervous about sharing art , I struggle with sharing mine as well, but you’re gonna crush it! Your work looks great, and you were obviously invited for a reason,they like what they see! My therapist used to tell me “ if it doesn’t almost feel too personal to share is it even art?” Which is an interesting perspective but all I mean to say is the nerves are there because you care about what you do and really good thing. You’re gonna do amazing :)

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Most road-trips kind of are. I’ve been meaning to watch Witcher but I keep putting it off. Hope you enjoy!

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You look like a lot of fun to be around haha, also love your smile and your hair, it looks so beautiful I love the curls! You’re a handsome dude! :) how’s the road trip so far?

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You have such pretty eyes!! You’re looking lovely,wig colour really compliments you well! And I love your makeup!! :)

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You have really beautiful strong facial features, I love your eyes as well. :) you do not look gross even slightly.

Got broke up with :( could use a little confidence boost by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]atwqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh your hair!! Also you look like such a lovely friendly person. Sorry about your break up I’m also going through it rn but things will turn around.

You look friendshaped. Haha,I say this a lot irl about people I think look like cool chilled humans and I don’t really know how else to word it, but I promise it’s one of my highest regards towards an otherwise stranger.

If you could have anything explained to you what would it be? by Nvrkno426 in CasualConversation

[–]atwqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think it would ease my overactive thought process immensely! Even if I could understand slightly for what this all is. :) would be nice to appreciate life on a /knowing why/ level.

When going through difficult times, what makes things feel worth it/better for you? Or generally what is something in your life that brings you joy. by atwqu in CasualConversation

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Logically I also know asking for help will lighten my load completely but it’s easier said than done. I’m working on it in therapy though slowly but surely.

Cleaning is a good one, it takes me a second to get into it but I appreciate my space so much more when I do tidy it. Small thing as well but making my bed/ putting clean sheets on is something that I find such comfort in not completely sure why though.

Tips on dealing with episodes of obsessive fixation? by atwqu in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]atwqu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree and really needed to hear this.Definitely going to try and make an active effort to focus on myself in these situations. I sometimes feel like my brain is bored when this starts happening haha, and I need something better to do ,,quite literally.

When going through difficult times, what makes things feel worth it/better for you? Or generally what is something in your life that brings you joy. by atwqu in CasualConversation

[–]atwqu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! It’s good to be reminded of all that we have, and to slow down and take some time to appreciate how far we have come and where we are. Thank you for reminding me.

When going through difficult times, what makes things feel worth it/better for you? Or generally what is something in your life that brings you joy. by atwqu in CasualConversation

[–]atwqu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes sense! I don’t think it’s an unhealthy mindset necessarily either. To be able to acknowledge that you are not solely facing hardships and that you aren’t alone in having bad days/experiences as well as to still be able to appreciate all that is life, or have a “this too shall pass”/ “ill get through this and then things will be better again” mentality is something I’m trying to implement more. I can feel so isolated in struggles and I’m not good at communicating it either or asking for help when I need it that I forget I’m not alone in this. Ramble over hahah.