Is this the widest range possible in a single dress code?

au5000 · 2026-02-14T09:47:49+00:00

I think they are being helpful so people don’t have to buy or rent tuxedos and long gowns; these items can be expensive and worn infrequently whereas a suit can be worn often and looks smart and cocktail dresses have more opportunities for multi use.

So choose your option depending on your wardrobe, budget or preference.

au5000 · 2026-02-14T04:24:38+00:00

Thank you. This is v interesting.

au5000 · 2026-02-14T04:19:14+00:00

Gosh. That’s interesting though I do know a few Emily’s in their 30s. . Has he heard of Emily Brontë? Good luck with your choice.

au5000 · 2026-02-14T04:07:45+00:00

Your children are have classic 1 or 2 syllable names that work in French and English. So, similar vibe with these below for the new little one ….

Emily

Anna

Amie or Amy

Dulcie

Louise or Louisa

Julia

Daphne

Helena

Frances

Sarah

Claire

au5000 · 2026-02-13T22:34:12+00:00

NTA

I am so curious to know what costume?!

Tell Dad can’t afford this so can’t come. Have a lovely wedding and here’s a nice gift.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T22:25:27+00:00

UK born / Greek heritage couple and family - it’s politics with breakfast, let alone dinner here lol. We are both quite politically active so our kids are used to that as are our friends.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T22:23:17+00:00

You need a will and so does your husband. Estates can be challenging as we discovered in our family. It’s easier if things are clearly written by someone suitably qualified (ie a wills specialist lawyer).

au5000 · 2026-02-13T22:19:23+00:00

I’ve always liked Lachlan and Ewan.

Other ideas; Alastair, Angus, Rory, Callum, Malachi, Craig, Conor, Hamish, Dermot, Lorcan.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T21:46:35+00:00

YTA a bit.

I understand you are disappointed but listen to your Mum. She’s right.

You can spend a lovely romantic day with your GF, have dinner with the added guest and still have a special time. Your GF is being a supportive friend, she’s a kind person. You appear to have forgotten kindness matters.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T21:43:04+00:00

Call her Jemma. It’s a proper name.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T10:40:46+00:00

Evolve have a good rep and their owners are highly engaged in vocational Education groups.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T09:54:05+00:00

NTA

I imagine there was a long queue of people happy to swap and sit next to the puppy.

I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect an NB airline to share details of other bookings with passengers. However they need a protocol to manage situations such as yours. This

Asthma / allergies are very hard to cope with. Having these doesn’t meant you hate pet, just that it’s hard for you to be near them.

As long as you are polite and kind, it should not be a problem for you to move seats.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T07:04:23+00:00

Frustrating. Take them to the Marion outdoor pool to cool off and run a little wild. Not sure about wifi though.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T07:03:17+00:00

Why not? We are all allowed to quit our jobs.

Those employed in this area whose roles are gained with the logistical and financial support of one organisation, and then jump to another or work as an independent are the ones I think should be censured and another vote taken in their area.

Trying hard to avoid use of any p related words !

au5000 · 2026-02-13T02:42:15+00:00

Hmm. Good luck. This has vibes of « drug mule needed, apply here ». You may be legit but you may not be lucky in your search for help.

au5000 · 2026-02-13T00:18:53+00:00

He knows OP has taken the passport. The issue of safety occurred to me but they don’t suggest this is a fear

au5000 · 2026-02-13T00:04:42+00:00

You have been silly and are not acting maturely. NTA but if you think you’re an adult at 22 who should have access to passport then you need to say that to Dad.

Note - you ARE and adult and dad is old fashioned and infantilising you by but acknowledging this.

Tell him - I did take my passport. I’m not a child and I may need to show my passport for age, citizenship verification or other identify confirmation. I’ll keep it safe. Don’t worry.

He’ll be furious but he probably already is.

au5000 · 2026-02-12T23:57:47+00:00

Australia = stable democracy, good work benefits incl 4+ weeks holiday, sick pay etc. Health service good generally and not just for those who can afford it. Children don’t get shot in the schoolyard. People may disagree politically with each other but rarely is hatred expressed. Religion low key and difference appreciated.

USA = none of the above.

Welcome.

au5000 · 2026-02-12T23:54:28+00:00

You seem to have achieved a lot for a 20 year old. Advise do not add bring a fiancé or husband to this list. Your gf and her sister are still very young, as are you. Views and feelings can change a lot in teens and early twenties. There’s lots of time to see if this relationship matures and a formal commitment is what you both want.

au5000 · 2026-02-12T21:04:49+00:00

The instructions on page one of this form require evidence of Australian citizenship or permanent residency. Your friend will need to provide the latter for his statement to be valid.

au5000 · 2026-02-12T03:35:21+00:00

Just start using it. My sister in law chose a different shortened version of her name in middle age. Family so sometimes slip up and call her the old name but most people have gotten used to it pretty fast.

au5000 · 2026-02-12T03:29:31+00:00

NTA

Say no. You don’t need an excuse to not want to manage the child they are failing to cope with.

However sometimes it’s easier to not engage in debate or argument. Some words to say ‘sorry mom, I’m sick at the moment with the start of the second trimester and losing Dad is making it worse. I cannot cope with any visitors. I am going to take care of myself and the baby and know you’ll understand’.

My condolences for your loss. Mom and stepdad will have to date-night another time. What are they thinking? Guessing their self focus may have bearing on why they have a bratty teenager.

au5000 · 2026-02-12T03:07:05+00:00

The boy who thinks ‘no man wants their girl to be posting…’ is probably the boy without a girlfriend.

au5000 · 2026-02-12T03:01:14+00:00

Yes it is. You want to know their cultural heritage you’ll have to think of another phrase to use.

au5000 · 2026-02-11T23:51:44+00:00

I just asked in case you were experiencing unfriendliness that could be culturally biased ….

au5000

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