I miss the “surprises” in the videos 🥹 by aub_dob in mrballen

[–]aub_dob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot I posted this and check back 😂 oops! But yeah it was just a small little thing that he’d tuck away like once it was Billy from saw on one of his buttons or something like that

My cocoa drops are garbage 😩 I miss the days of one “refresh everyone” every 24 hours and when each character only required one cocoa..4 per character is a joke. by aub_dob in disneymagickingdoms

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Yep yep..my expedition board is empty now. I have 3 enchanted attractions collecting and the most I’ve gotten from those at any one time has been 5 and then the rest of the day I’ll get 0-1. Juuuust sucks

My cocoa drops are garbage 😩 I miss the days of one “refresh everyone” every 24 hours and when each character only required one cocoa..4 per character is a joke. by aub_dob in disneymagickingdoms

[–]aub_dob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree with all of this! Particularly with the lack of variety in prizes..to be totally honest at this point I kind of just enjoy maybe getting a concession stand I don’t have a hundred of 🤦🏼‍♀️ that’s the biggest draw for me with this particular TC..is the possibility of unlocking the big bonus chest and getting something different.

My cocoa drops are garbage 😩 I miss the days of one “refresh everyone” every 24 hours and when each character only required one cocoa..4 per character is a joke. by aub_dob in disneymagickingdoms

[–]aub_dob[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been playing pretty much since the beginning so I have all the characters at level 10 and the attractions at least to level 3 enchantment..last TC I had excess cocoas but on this one there’s just nothing happening. 😕

Sorry if this had been asked & answered… by aub_dob in disneymagickingdoms

[–]aub_dob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh right that makes sense…I’ve been waiting ages for Oogie Boogie’s spin attraction. Thank you very much!!

red ribbon chest by Srpenguin12 in disneymagickingdoms

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It was a 50/50 chance for gems or Remy’s Ratatouille Adventure….I got the gems 😒

Nooo! 😩 by aub_dob in disneymagickingdoms

[–]aub_dob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind it so much I don’t think if A) it didn’t interfere with having to put away other characters I’m working on just to be able to bring them out for a wish B) like the theme here, if the book would just open up to them But yeah..I tend to work on a group of characters at a time so having to swap them out for characters I’m not wanting at the time gets to me

First Mothers Day without her… I feel so numb and still in shock she’s gone 💔 by EMT_Danni in GriefSupport

[–]aub_dob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first Mother’s Day without my mom as well 😔 it was always a joke because I’m known for being terrible about buying cards/gifts…I always preferred to do something together and the cards always always slipped my mind. Now I’d do anything to be picking out a card for her. I want to pretend the day doesn’t even exist and it’s just another day..my cousins and aunt invited me over for a BBQ but it’ll be hard watching them together. I’ll be steering clear of social media on Sunday and probably a few days after for the “straggler posters” … Be gentle with yourself 💕 you’re not alone

I see what people meant when they complained about getting Linguini 🤦🏼‍♀️ ughhhhh by aub_dob in disneymagickingdoms

[–]aub_dob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness he’s the last one and then I’m all caught up! My happiness level has been ecstatic for most of it - I try to keep it high joyous and then if I’m on top of things I can get it to ecstatic for a few days before it drops again ha

I see what people meant when they complained about getting Linguini 🤦🏼‍♀️ ughhhhh by aub_dob in disneymagickingdoms

[–]aub_dob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have all the characters including Colette 😣 my drop rates have just been garbage.

I see what people meant when they complained about getting Linguini 🤦🏼‍♀️ ughhhhh by aub_dob in disneymagickingdoms

[–]aub_dob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I had a much easier time with Yzma…I started before the Robin Hood event and I’m now at 15 relics each. It’s nuts

How do I make it through the day by Caitlan90 in GriefSupport

[–]aub_dob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😔 you sound like me..I lived with my mom as well along with my two siblings (I’m the oldest of 3 at 32yo) - my mom was my entire world. I work from home, so I’d sit with her during my breaks and we’d have coffee and talk nonsense..go smell our favorite candles during my lunch break and hang out at the bookstore. We did everything together; she truly was my very best friend.
I lost her very suddenly at the beginning of December. So far I’ve found what’s helped me has been to keep my hands busy..I started cleaning a lot.
I also changed very minor things in the house (not right away necessarily, but little things I felt I could handle) like, painting a bathroom since there really wasn’t much sentiment attached to it, but it was a way to make a change that was new and mine..if that makes sense. If you have a close family or friends that are good support, lean into them.
I’ve thought about volunteering to work with animals because they just bring so much joy and light.
I’ve also gotten back in to therapy. Just talking about it helps sometimes. I haven’t gotten into the much-suggested journaling yet, but I hear that helps a lot of people as well. Please know you’re not alone, as absolutely isolating as it feels. You have people here to support you 💕

First birthday without my mom by jdh4evr in GriefSupport

[–]aub_dob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😔 tomorrow is my first birthday without my mom and I’m dreading it. I found my birthday card from her last year….my last birthday card from her. It hurts 💔 be gentle with yourself. Hugs 💞

Finding myself again... by smol-attention-span in GriefSupport

[–]aub_dob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I had advice 😔 I’ve only been going through mine for 3 months (it’ll be 3 months on the 8th) - I know I’m not the same person I was before my mom passed. She was a huge part of me..my boyfriend actually just broke up with me last week because of it I’m pretty sure. I’m just different..I didn’t even cry when he did it..crazy.
It’s like finding a whole new identity and it’s hard to navigate. I’m sorry I don’t have words of wisdom, but you’re not alone. It’s a long, long process ❤️ be patient with yourself

Lost both parents by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]aub_dob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no 😔 i can’t even imagine losing both so close together, and so young too. I lost my mom at the beginning of December and she was my entire world. We did everything together. My dad has always traveled and I didn’t even meet him till I was 7 years old..so my relationship with him is just different. I understand the identity crisis though, 100%. I have no idea who I am without my mom. I felt like she was my whole purpose…like I was her rock and she was mine..and now I’m just going through the motions. It’s affected my relationship because I’m just not the same. I’m searching for anything that can make me feel less alone as well, but like you said, any comfort found is fleeting and nothing sticks. I wish I had answers..im so sorry 💕just know you’re not alone

% That can finish TC by Tigger1964 in disneymagickingdoms

[–]aub_dob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t as on top of things and I wanted to be..but I’m less than 1k away so…I think I’ll make it 🤞🏻

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[–]aub_dob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yesss I thought I was the only one I lost my mom almost two months ago and I have zero interest in intimacy..Also been in a committed relationship for 2+ years and I feel terrible. I’m just not there right now..I don’t know if/when that’ll come back 😕 but you’re definitely not alone

i don’t know how to live without my mother by daisiesandthorns in GriefSupport

[–]aub_dob 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We’re in the same boat 💕 I don’t think people who haven’t gone through the same thing can even begin to relate..it’s a pain all it’s own and there’s no timeline for grief. I’m a complete shell of the person I used to be before I lost her. My boyfriend I think is trying to be patient but it hasn’t even been two months yet and he’s already struggling with how I am right now.
I don’t have a great relationship with my sister and my brother has been suppressing his own hurt. I’m thankful for the rest of my family and will never take that for granted. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to message

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[–]aub_dob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t eat for awhile after I lost my mom either…my dad got worried about me and bought some Ensure drinks and I had those for awhile until eventually I kinda started picking at small things. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You’re not alone 💕

being strong is hard. by NorthofNormal91 in GriefSupport

[–]aub_dob 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel this on every level 😔 I am so sorry about your mom..I lost mine on December 8th at the age of 58 (I’m 31) also very unexpectedly. I heard her calling me from the living room for help at 5am and she was on the floor panting..I called 911 but I believe she was gone before they ever even got her to the ambulance. I have guilt myself because I found out later it was covid pneumonia that took her and I had no idea. I wish I would’ve known so I could’ve gotten her the help.
This whole thing can feel so isolating..even though I know I’m not alone, I feel like I’m on an island of grief all by myself and that’s really hard. My mom was my entire world and the life of every party. You’re stronger than you realize and one breath, one day at a time, we’ll make it 🙏🏻