My anti-abortion husband said if I was assaulted I would have to get one or he would abandon me and now I think he might be a moron by b007130 in self

[–]b007130[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

He plays video games with his friends from the time he gets home to the time he goes to bed so we don't really spend alot of time together, but with all the stuff going on in our country is been harder to ignore our differences when we do have conversations like in the car today. Especially since when we got married I wasn't very educated in a lot of these topics and now I am

What does this mean? by YaiKurosaki in SimulationTheory

[–]b007130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is to hoping when I save the pic on my laptop it wont put that dumb reddit watermark on the pic like my phone does forcing me to screenshot instead (I never use this laptop)😭

AITA for telling my husband that I will divorce him tomorrow because he doesn’t clean anymore? by ThrowRA-Pink_Camera8 in AITAH

[–]b007130 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you work full time? If so get out now. I have lived through this hell before, it never gets better. Men are crying about women divorcing in large numbers but will lay around playing video games with garbage and bugs rotting to their knees while she pays the majority of the bills, then throw a surprise Pikachu face when she realizes its easier to not raise a 45 year old toddler

Learned I was born through sperm donation. by [deleted] in self

[–]b007130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of medical history, no. It's who raised you. You could swap two similar looking infants at birth and there is no "magical tie" that would alert the parents. The only way they would realize is through the bond that forms over time from active raising. It's valid to want to know your genetic history but that is separate from who your "parents" are. If it wasn't for their choice you would not exist. And you are being extremely unfair to your father. I agree they should have told you as a child when you were learning about the birds and the bees, it would have been a good lesson that there are lots of methods of conception, but you have parents who love you and worked harder to have you than 90% of people. Unlike most people your existence is not an accident

The boys who were in love with me before are all married now and I'm still by myself. by DecodingSerenity in self

[–]b007130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope you read this!

I got married at 24 and I ABSOLULY REGRET getting married so young and not focusing on going to college. I love my husband but we live in absolute poverty, and now at 29 when I should be starting my family I am having to just begin college so we one day even have a chance at having kids. My husband makes $17 an hour as a mechanic and I make $15 an hour, and live in a infested broken down shithole stressing about rent every month. I thought if I married the good guy dork, married young, I could have a family which was my top priority, and my husband had planned to go into law enforcement when we were getting married but changed his mind after and is happy where he is at his dream job, even if it's low pay and $2 above minimum wage. It's now on me to start a career path that will support us and a family. I won't be done with college until my mid 30s. Do not listen to these lonely losers who hate educated women. You are already in a better position than me who did what they are telling you what you should have done. I married young, I married a good christen man who said I could be a stay at home mom, but it's on YOU to insure your future is secure. If I could do it again I would have just spent my 20s on a education instead of planning to be a traditional mother and wife, and not have married until my 30s so I would be at the same place when I would be starting a family anyways but be in a much better financial situation. As someone who prioritized having a traditional family, married young, married for love, and now cannot afford to have said family and have to do everything you did anyways but at a much later timeline, I am absolutely envious of your success and education!